omg .
well let me start off.
im 15 and never cheated or any thing
very loving and friendly.
i have been going out with this guy for 8 months now.
recently i have been hanging out with this guy and today he kissed me !
he knew i was going out with him and there even friends.
i duno what to do
i pretened to be sick so i can come home and cry.
i am disapointed in myself.
he acts as if we were going out
i do like him i admit,
i just love my bf tho.
omg sum one help me plz.
i need some serious help.
%26amp; id appreacte it if i didnt get any negative answers.
i NEVER thought i would do this.
plz some one help me ) :Relationship advice.omg some one please help me !?
Wow. Sounds like a serious problem.
First of all, Your dating at 15? It's a good thing your not my daughter. Second, your only 15. What I am trying to tell you is that you shouldn't be exclusive at such a young age. If you and your boyfriend stay together until your 20 and then you marry him, what are the chances that you will go the rest of your life wondering what life would have been like if you had gotten to know more people. My mother once told me that in the wrong circumstances, familiarity breeds contempt. What that basically means is that the more you and bf become familiar with each other the less attractive you will be to each other.
Bottom line is BIG DEAL. You kissed a boy. This does not make you a bad person. It makes you a young person experiencing life. Relax, let your hair down, and enjoy your youth. You have the rest of your life to be miserable.Relationship advice.omg some one please help me !?
Hunny, first stop crying and second you are 15, things aren't that bad, you need to call the boy you kissed and tell him you are sorry but you have a boyfriend and that is a far as it will go. Second call your boyfriend and tell him, let him know that you got caught up in the moment but you love him and it will never happen again, if you are honest I sure things will come out okay. And Hunny talk to your MOM I have 3 teens myself I gave this advice to my 16 daughter just a few days ago, I know that as a mom I wanted to be there and I am sure your MOM does too, so let her know hat is going on she may even have a few tips for you to use. Good Luck.
Hello, I do hope I can help you. It seems like you need to make a decision before it is exposed that you have an interest in two guys at the same time.
Once you make a decision not with your heart but with your mind and heart together, it will hopefully make you feel better.
Good luck, and I hope things work out in your favor.
If you dont want it to go any further with this Other guy then you need to tell him so and Stop hanging out with him. Come clean with your boyfriend too. You will always wonder if someone is going to tell him if you dont and believe me it should come from you and not someone else. It may even hurt your relationship if you dont.Hope he will be understanding enough to forgive you. Tell him you didnt expect it and that the other guy kissed you and you didnt kiss him back.
grow up!!
You have your whole life ahead of you so get a grip baby!
First of all, you NEVER, NEVER, NEVER allow yourself to desire so much attention from someone that you get yourself into this kind of a bind.
You must first be true to yourself before you can be true to anyone else.
NEVER get involved with your boyfriends friends.
Let's just say that you had a tiny piece of that forbidden apple and now you're full of guilt. And you know what? That piece just might get a bit bigger as time goes by. Know your limits. Let him know his limits. Okay?
if you really love your boyfriend you should explain the situation to him before his friend tells your boyfriend that you were all over him(which obviously didn't happen). . .
From experience I can tell you that one way or another the situation is going to come up and the longer you wait and more commited you and your boyfriend get the worst the situation is going to be
Bring your boyfriend to your house or somewhere else where you feel comfertable and the two of you can be alone. tell him that you have been hanging out with his friend recently doing nothing but hanging out and then explain what happened with the whole kiss (like he kissed you and you pushed him away, you kissed back, etc). Don't lie about the situation tell him the truth . . . he deserves to know, and if he loves you as much as you do him he should understand it wasn't your fault and hopefully things will go back to normal
Good Luck!
Well just tell the guy that kissed u to leave u alone b/c u got a man and u love him... and tell ur man the truth... that HE KISSED YOU!!!! And if he breaks up with u... then you'll know that yall just were not meant to be
Tell him you're going out with someone and that you think it was very thoughtless and rude of him to just kiss you without asking you if it was okay.
Ditch the guy you kissed, and stick to your BF. Dont worry about it, your only fifteen trust me its a lesson learned.
ditch the guy that kissed you and tell your bf that he came on to you. If he really loves you he would still be there and not be friends with hte guy that kissed you. obviously the guy that kissed you does not care about anything. TELL your bf the whole truth though even though it might hurt the key to a realtionship is trusting one another
Sweetie, in all honesty, all you did was learn a lesson. And hopefully you DID learn. Honesty will always be the best way to go, and hearing your truth first will be much better than him hearing the other guys truth.
You shouldn't be putting yourself into these situations in the first place. I hate to be mean to guys, but they are opportunistic. Stop tempting fate by hanging out alone with other guys. It's natural for them to make a move and test the boundries. This will carry through your whole life. It's sad, and true, they can be dogs. You need to keep an eye out for those that don't respect their friends, because they sure won't respect you.
Don't forget your part as well, it does take two. Remember this in the future, and behave in a way that you can be proud of.
Good luck.
Monday, November 21, 2011
I need relationship advice?!?
my sis (14) just broke up w/ her bf and she's really sad!! he said that dey should be freinds and b/c he doesn't see her. and now they R goin to different high schools plz help!! she's way pretty and can get a guy in a minute!!! seriously!! i don't wanna say that but plz give me adviceI need relationship advice?!?
Keep your sister busy, plan trips to the mall, movies, go out with friends. Your sister is going to a different school-which means she will meet a TON of new boys. Good luck!I need relationship advice?!?
Hey
Yea i just went throught this
Um i was sad and he didnt see me either and i am not going to a different high school too!
my friends say i can get a guy in a minute too but it is not the same i really liked him and it was hard to let go of him
but what i say is that they can be really good friends be sis and bro or something like that!
tell her that it may be better to be really good friends cause long distance relastionships dont last long. you should stay friend and if she really wants a guy i am sure she can find a good guy at her new school
i hope i help this helped me
Keep your sister busy, plan trips to the mall, movies, go out with friends. Your sister is going to a different school-which means she will meet a TON of new boys. Good luck!I need relationship advice?!?
Hey
Yea i just went throught this
Um i was sad and he didnt see me either and i am not going to a different high school too!
my friends say i can get a guy in a minute too but it is not the same i really liked him and it was hard to let go of him
but what i say is that they can be really good friends be sis and bro or something like that!
tell her that it may be better to be really good friends cause long distance relastionships dont last long. you should stay friend and if she really wants a guy i am sure she can find a good guy at her new school
i hope i help this helped me
Relationship advice please! I meet this girl online about 2 months ago &...??
She lives in another country and we made plans for me to go visit her next month. We have been chatting every day for several hours online for the past (2) months. Recently, things have gotten ';serious'; as we have started to say ';love you'; to each other and actually participated in ';web sex'; for the 1st time last night.
However, she broke-up with her ex-BF about (8) months ago %26amp; they dated for 5 years. He left her for another girl that he was cheating on her with.
She says she is over him %26amp; doesn't want him anymore, and I believe her, but I'm not sure she is over the pain. On a couple of occassions, she has asked me ';how can we have serious relationship when we live so far away??'; To which I have told her I would be willing to move and live with her in her country if things get that serious. I think we can decide this better after we meet next month. By the way, this is my 1st ';online relationship'; and hers too.
Last night, after our ';web sex'; she asked....Relationship advice please! I meet this girl online about 2 months ago %26amp;...??
since she was in a long relationship that ended badly, its only normal that she feels a little skeptical about dating again. the only thing you can do is assure her that your different, and not only by your words, also by ur actions. keep talking to her, let her know you`ll always be there for her, good or bad times. don't lie about important things, be honest about everything. these things will assure you and her will have a good relationship. its normal for her to be acting like this, i know from expierence. but if you really want to make it work out with her, let her know how you feel and be good to her. everything will work out for the best. i wish you luck!Relationship advice please! I meet this girl online about 2 months ago %26amp;...??
you have to see what SHE wants. if i was her in the situation, i say it would be best to wait until she is ready and comfortable with the whole thing. just keep talking to her and assuring her that this time, with you, everything will be different and work out. good luck Report Abuse
JUST GO %26amp; SEE HER! follow through with your plans. Keep reassuring her that every thing will be o.k. This could be a great experience for the both of you. Don't let go of some thing that could possibly be 'the one'; regardless if you met over the internet or not, regardless she's in another country. Make sure you see if it can work out.
GOOD LUCK!
by deciding what you really want
You won't be able to until the two of you meet and talk. Good luck.
Start with dating someone you can actually touch, taste and smell.
I know a couple who have a very fulfilling long distance relationship. She lives in TX. he lives in Germany.
The pain from her past relationship might be getting the best of her. Why did she ask if you would be angry if you didn't go? Did you ask her why she would change her mind? You still have plenty of time before your trip. Be patient and *listen*. See how things go...but if your heart, you know she is only acting on fears, don't let that discourage you. Best of luck to you!
Maybe she does not want you to go visit her because she is still with this other person
ypu should seriously think about?
You should get a real girlfriend.
Have some real sex.
kk i have to ask how the hell did you have web sex? well anyways have you seen this girl? also have you seen the movie euro-trip? well all i can say is watch that. but other than that if you know her that well as you think do what your heart says, go see her. Find out the real problem, if there is even one. and then have real sex with her. good luck and remember to wrap it:)
I have a similar situation with a guy I met online earlier this month. He is also suppose to be out of the country on business until next weekend. Then, he said he was planning to move straight from where he is to live with me in my house! I told him that was probably not the best idea and he didn't write for several days. Something else also happened (not web sex) and we had a big argument. He disconnected me from the IM and didn't write again until today. Then it was just a nice poem about Easter. I said thank you and I just sent him an ecard and he just opened it up but did not request a chat.
I think I was really starting to like him. I think I also understand him too. He had a bad past because his parents died when he was young. He has always felt abandoned and I think we are trying to trust each other.
I don't want to give up on him but I may not have no choice.
This is our first online relationship as well and we seemed to be hitting it off well before our disagreement.
We have not met each other and I was looking forward to that but I don't want him to move in with me. So we have a similar problem and I don't know how to solve my problem either.
Good luck!
just be cool...paper mask
However, she broke-up with her ex-BF about (8) months ago %26amp; they dated for 5 years. He left her for another girl that he was cheating on her with.
She says she is over him %26amp; doesn't want him anymore, and I believe her, but I'm not sure she is over the pain. On a couple of occassions, she has asked me ';how can we have serious relationship when we live so far away??'; To which I have told her I would be willing to move and live with her in her country if things get that serious. I think we can decide this better after we meet next month. By the way, this is my 1st ';online relationship'; and hers too.
Last night, after our ';web sex'; she asked....Relationship advice please! I meet this girl online about 2 months ago %26amp;...??
since she was in a long relationship that ended badly, its only normal that she feels a little skeptical about dating again. the only thing you can do is assure her that your different, and not only by your words, also by ur actions. keep talking to her, let her know you`ll always be there for her, good or bad times. don't lie about important things, be honest about everything. these things will assure you and her will have a good relationship. its normal for her to be acting like this, i know from expierence. but if you really want to make it work out with her, let her know how you feel and be good to her. everything will work out for the best. i wish you luck!Relationship advice please! I meet this girl online about 2 months ago %26amp;...??
you have to see what SHE wants. if i was her in the situation, i say it would be best to wait until she is ready and comfortable with the whole thing. just keep talking to her and assuring her that this time, with you, everything will be different and work out. good luck Report Abuse
JUST GO %26amp; SEE HER! follow through with your plans. Keep reassuring her that every thing will be o.k. This could be a great experience for the both of you. Don't let go of some thing that could possibly be 'the one'; regardless if you met over the internet or not, regardless she's in another country. Make sure you see if it can work out.
GOOD LUCK!
by deciding what you really want
You won't be able to until the two of you meet and talk. Good luck.
Start with dating someone you can actually touch, taste and smell.
I know a couple who have a very fulfilling long distance relationship. She lives in TX. he lives in Germany.
The pain from her past relationship might be getting the best of her. Why did she ask if you would be angry if you didn't go? Did you ask her why she would change her mind? You still have plenty of time before your trip. Be patient and *listen*. See how things go...but if your heart, you know she is only acting on fears, don't let that discourage you. Best of luck to you!
Maybe she does not want you to go visit her because she is still with this other person
ypu should seriously think about?
You should get a real girlfriend.
Have some real sex.
kk i have to ask how the hell did you have web sex? well anyways have you seen this girl? also have you seen the movie euro-trip? well all i can say is watch that. but other than that if you know her that well as you think do what your heart says, go see her. Find out the real problem, if there is even one. and then have real sex with her. good luck and remember to wrap it:)
I have a similar situation with a guy I met online earlier this month. He is also suppose to be out of the country on business until next weekend. Then, he said he was planning to move straight from where he is to live with me in my house! I told him that was probably not the best idea and he didn't write for several days. Something else also happened (not web sex) and we had a big argument. He disconnected me from the IM and didn't write again until today. Then it was just a nice poem about Easter. I said thank you and I just sent him an ecard and he just opened it up but did not request a chat.
I think I was really starting to like him. I think I also understand him too. He had a bad past because his parents died when he was young. He has always felt abandoned and I think we are trying to trust each other.
I don't want to give up on him but I may not have no choice.
This is our first online relationship as well and we seemed to be hitting it off well before our disagreement.
We have not met each other and I was looking forward to that but I don't want him to move in with me. So we have a similar problem and I don't know how to solve my problem either.
Good luck!
just be cool...
Relationship Advice Needed - help!?
My problem is my parents hate my boyfriend. My parents and I are close and I respect thier opinions. My boyfriend and I are in our early 30's. They cannont stand my boyfriend because they claim he is ';not good enough for me, ugly, lower class and bad mannered';. A couple of times I met my my boyfriend for dinner and my parents stalked me then told me my every move on the phone and argued with me about dating him at all. My parents constantly try to get me to date someone else and have even tryed to put a profile up for me on a dating website.
Now about my boyfriend. Badside first: a bit of a temper but not violent. Very serious about work sometimes and ignores other things to put work first. Has a jealous streak. A bit controling. Goodside: Makes sure he provides for me with anything I need, treats me wonderfully when not focused on work. Is respectful and caring with good family values.Relationship Advice Needed - help!?
I am glad that you and your parents are close.
It's fine to respect their decision, but that doesn't mean you need to agree with it.
Since you and your parents are so close, I suggest sitting down with them and openly and honestly discussing each others feelings and thoughts on the matter (if you haven't already).
Explain to them that anybody that makes you happy and that loves you for all of who you are (and you return that love equally), should make them happy too.
They don't have to like him, but they do need to respect YOUR opinion as much as you respect THEIRS.
See how it has been a bit one-sided on their part?
Now I'm not pointing any fingers or anything, but everything needs to be shoved into the open.
Also, you need to decide if your boyfriend is worth all of this trouble.
Does he make you happy and love you in the way I described above?
And if so, do you return those feelings?
If any of those are a not-quite or a flat-out no, then I don't suggest causing a rut between your parents and you over him.
Anyway...be confident in yourself.
You are perfectly capable of making the best decision for yourself.
I hope my advice helped and I apologize if it didn't.
Take care!Relationship Advice Needed - help!?
they could be sensing things u cannot.they are muchmore experienced. why not try to get them open up more to u.all the best.
You answered your own question, He puts you second from work. If I was serious about a woman, she would be first and foremost.
dump him
Well...'cause you're in love with him you don't think those ';bad things about him'; are so bad. But let me tell you something, if you might marry that guy in the future, then you will see the real him 100%. And the other things is: you need to be proud of the person you're with. Are you proud of him cause he's jealous? Are you proud of his bad manners? Love is blind. Your parents are very objective with their opinion.
hon, I can see both points a view here. what you need to do is ask yourself. Do you really love him and want to fight for him, love is unconditional and i do see good qualities in your guy. make a list or the pros's and con's. study that for awhile maybe you will be able to come to a decision for yourself. Then ask your parents nicely well not ask but tell them look your 30 years old. It is time you live and make your own life good or bad, how else are you going to learn what is a good relationship/ not. I hope I was of some help. I've been in your shoes about to long to recall. But I think you get my point here.
My wishes are with you and hope all works out in your favor.
Well that is not an easy place to be i am presently in some what of a situation like that my mother in law hates me and has basically made me so miserable there is a wedge in my relationship till i don't know where i stand but for you honey if you love and are sure about him speak with your parents ask them why they're reating that way towards him but in the end remember no matter what they have said they have lived there lives already mistakes and all and you now have to live yours but what i am scared about is the temper problem he has speak to him about it also and if you both intend to be in a commited and strond relationship he has to give a little on some of the above things you have mentioned because providing for you with everything doesn't mean he should ignore you that makes it seem like a parent turning on the television and leaving it to babysit the kid so she won't be disturbed and it seems a little controlling too like he can give you stuff to shut you up but get all three people together and let them know how you feel in the end it will save your sanity.
I can understand your parents concern since he does not sound like a very good catch at all. The temper would bother me. He puts work first would bother me. Being jealous would bother me. These are very important qualities to consider and you are the one saying all of this!!! You seem to be making excuses for him. He does not seem to be someone who I would plan a future with at all. If you are in your 30's, I would think that you would be seriously looking at a committed, married relationship and I think that you would be very sorry if you continued with this guy. However, it is your life and should do as you please in that department. You need to set boundaries with your parents that you will not discuss your relationships with them.....period. You are not a little girl who needs their permission. You need to take control in this area. Stop allowing them to beat you up and criticise you. If they start on you.....remind them of the boundaries and if they do not stop........walk away.....leave. Stand up for yourself. Now, do you get both of these concepts???? Good......now take some control over your life and make good decisions.
Ummmmm, you are a grown up in your 30s. Tell your parents that you appreciate their looking out for you but that because you are an adult, they need to back off and let you make your own decisions. That is so sad they stalk you and try to tell you who to date when you are in your 30s. They need to get a life if they still want to monitor yours. They are far too controlling but the thing is, you let them. You need to stand up for yourself.
Now about my boyfriend. Badside first: a bit of a temper but not violent. Very serious about work sometimes and ignores other things to put work first. Has a jealous streak. A bit controling. Goodside: Makes sure he provides for me with anything I need, treats me wonderfully when not focused on work. Is respectful and caring with good family values.Relationship Advice Needed - help!?
I am glad that you and your parents are close.
It's fine to respect their decision, but that doesn't mean you need to agree with it.
Since you and your parents are so close, I suggest sitting down with them and openly and honestly discussing each others feelings and thoughts on the matter (if you haven't already).
Explain to them that anybody that makes you happy and that loves you for all of who you are (and you return that love equally), should make them happy too.
They don't have to like him, but they do need to respect YOUR opinion as much as you respect THEIRS.
See how it has been a bit one-sided on their part?
Now I'm not pointing any fingers or anything, but everything needs to be shoved into the open.
Also, you need to decide if your boyfriend is worth all of this trouble.
Does he make you happy and love you in the way I described above?
And if so, do you return those feelings?
If any of those are a not-quite or a flat-out no, then I don't suggest causing a rut between your parents and you over him.
Anyway...be confident in yourself.
You are perfectly capable of making the best decision for yourself.
I hope my advice helped and I apologize if it didn't.
Take care!Relationship Advice Needed - help!?
they could be sensing things u cannot.they are muchmore experienced. why not try to get them open up more to u.all the best.
You answered your own question, He puts you second from work. If I was serious about a woman, she would be first and foremost.
dump him
Well...'cause you're in love with him you don't think those ';bad things about him'; are so bad. But let me tell you something, if you might marry that guy in the future, then you will see the real him 100%. And the other things is: you need to be proud of the person you're with. Are you proud of him cause he's jealous? Are you proud of his bad manners? Love is blind. Your parents are very objective with their opinion.
hon, I can see both points a view here. what you need to do is ask yourself. Do you really love him and want to fight for him, love is unconditional and i do see good qualities in your guy. make a list or the pros's and con's. study that for awhile maybe you will be able to come to a decision for yourself. Then ask your parents nicely well not ask but tell them look your 30 years old. It is time you live and make your own life good or bad, how else are you going to learn what is a good relationship/ not. I hope I was of some help. I've been in your shoes about to long to recall. But I think you get my point here.
My wishes are with you and hope all works out in your favor.
Well that is not an easy place to be i am presently in some what of a situation like that my mother in law hates me and has basically made me so miserable there is a wedge in my relationship till i don't know where i stand but for you honey if you love and are sure about him speak with your parents ask them why they're reating that way towards him but in the end remember no matter what they have said they have lived there lives already mistakes and all and you now have to live yours but what i am scared about is the temper problem he has speak to him about it also and if you both intend to be in a commited and strond relationship he has to give a little on some of the above things you have mentioned because providing for you with everything doesn't mean he should ignore you that makes it seem like a parent turning on the television and leaving it to babysit the kid so she won't be disturbed and it seems a little controlling too like he can give you stuff to shut you up but get all three people together and let them know how you feel in the end it will save your sanity.
I can understand your parents concern since he does not sound like a very good catch at all. The temper would bother me. He puts work first would bother me. Being jealous would bother me. These are very important qualities to consider and you are the one saying all of this!!! You seem to be making excuses for him. He does not seem to be someone who I would plan a future with at all. If you are in your 30's, I would think that you would be seriously looking at a committed, married relationship and I think that you would be very sorry if you continued with this guy. However, it is your life and should do as you please in that department. You need to set boundaries with your parents that you will not discuss your relationships with them.....period. You are not a little girl who needs their permission. You need to take control in this area. Stop allowing them to beat you up and criticise you. If they start on you.....remind them of the boundaries and if they do not stop........walk away.....leave. Stand up for yourself. Now, do you get both of these concepts???? Good......now take some control over your life and make good decisions.
Ummmmm, you are a grown up in your 30s. Tell your parents that you appreciate their looking out for you but that because you are an adult, they need to back off and let you make your own decisions. That is so sad they stalk you and try to tell you who to date when you are in your 30s. They need to get a life if they still want to monitor yours. They are far too controlling but the thing is, you let them. You need to stand up for yourself.
Relationship Advice?!? PLEASE HELP?
My girlfriend and I were together for 8 months and I started being up her @$$ a lot and sort of smothering her plus I am 2 years older and I am more committed and she felt I was forcing her to commit and be there all the time.
I always have treated her right and I buy her just aboiut everything (I'm somewhat whipped, you could say)
Well, we broke up because of the way I was smothering her and then I took people's advice and didn't call her for 3 days straight and then I ran into her at Wal-Mart in town and she broke down and confessed to me that she missed me a lot and she was sorry and we talked for about 20 minutes over a cup of coffee and I told her that we should spend more time with our friends and that we don't have to be together so much and she said she felt a lot better about things.
So... now that we resolved that, do you think this is a positive step and do we have a pretty good chance of making it? Or was it bad move?
All answers welcome!Relationship Advice?!? PLEASE HELP?
The mistake most men tend to make is buying TOO many gifts for their women.
Some women will take that in their advantage and it's not good for you to put yourself out there for her to do so.
Try cutting down on being down her throat about every little thing and don't buy her so much !!
If you stick to my advice I guarantee everything will work out just fine.
Just let everything fall into place.
and GOOD LUCK !!Relationship Advice?!? PLEASE HELP?
i think it is a great step in the right direction and i applaud you for your effort and the fact that you knew what was bothering her and actually asked her about it and i think you have a good chance as long as you stick with what you say and do it actions speak louder then words and the fact they you guys actually talked about is very great you would be surprised just how many couples do not talk about this stuff and good luck and congrats on getting her back i really wish you guys the best of luck , latter
You are attempting something for the benefit of a healthy relationship. How can that be a bad move? Good luck to you.
I agree with the person who said not to spend too much money. It's a nice gesture, but save your money.
If it's what you both want, then its a good move. Just respect her boundaries. If you want something she doesn't, then you need to move on and find someone who does. Don't try to change her, it will just make her unhappy and she'll resent you in the long run.
yes u made a good step!!
well it seems u really like this gurl alot and now that ur back together ur relationship with her is alot stroner then it was.
I commend you on your maturity in realizing ';smothering'; someone will break you up. If you keep your promise and don't do it again, you have a good chance of being together. I broke up with men for that exact thing, I hate being around someone 24/7. Being clingy and smothering are not good qualities. You both discussed it maturely and it worked out, only proving what I always say, communication is the thing that if you don't have it, you will never have a good relationship. I hope it works out for both of you.
i see great things evolving from this relationship
I think that you made a good decision. However, there is no mention here about whether you learned from your past mistakes or not. What led you to break up? Are you still repeating your old mistakes? If so, then stop. Try to sort out your own issues and ask her to help you. If she feels pressured, tell her to tell you so that you can learn to control it. Trust me, your relationship will be much better.
I think its good that your giving her her space because if your around her all the time she wont have a chance to miss you. Me and my boyfriend wont see each other for three or four days so that when we see each other its more special and i actually miss him. So I think what you did was good you cant force a woman to commit just relax and continue to love her but dont over do it
good job!
Of course is good, you know it's not your fault. Everyone need to have personal space, and everyone need their air. It is also why we are different in our unique way.
It's a VERY mature move. Everyone needs space even people in a relationship, it's called trust %26amp; that's a HUGE part to making something last long term. It's GOOD to be able to survive on your own socially w/o your bf/gf....we need to be our own person first %26amp; someones significantother, second.
I always have treated her right and I buy her just aboiut everything (I'm somewhat whipped, you could say)
Well, we broke up because of the way I was smothering her and then I took people's advice and didn't call her for 3 days straight and then I ran into her at Wal-Mart in town and she broke down and confessed to me that she missed me a lot and she was sorry and we talked for about 20 minutes over a cup of coffee and I told her that we should spend more time with our friends and that we don't have to be together so much and she said she felt a lot better about things.
So... now that we resolved that, do you think this is a positive step and do we have a pretty good chance of making it? Or was it bad move?
All answers welcome!Relationship Advice?!? PLEASE HELP?
The mistake most men tend to make is buying TOO many gifts for their women.
Some women will take that in their advantage and it's not good for you to put yourself out there for her to do so.
Try cutting down on being down her throat about every little thing and don't buy her so much !!
If you stick to my advice I guarantee everything will work out just fine.
Just let everything fall into place.
and GOOD LUCK !!Relationship Advice?!? PLEASE HELP?
i think it is a great step in the right direction and i applaud you for your effort and the fact that you knew what was bothering her and actually asked her about it and i think you have a good chance as long as you stick with what you say and do it actions speak louder then words and the fact they you guys actually talked about is very great you would be surprised just how many couples do not talk about this stuff and good luck and congrats on getting her back i really wish you guys the best of luck , latter
You are attempting something for the benefit of a healthy relationship. How can that be a bad move? Good luck to you.
I agree with the person who said not to spend too much money. It's a nice gesture, but save your money.
If it's what you both want, then its a good move. Just respect her boundaries. If you want something she doesn't, then you need to move on and find someone who does. Don't try to change her, it will just make her unhappy and she'll resent you in the long run.
yes u made a good step!!
well it seems u really like this gurl alot and now that ur back together ur relationship with her is alot stroner then it was.
I commend you on your maturity in realizing ';smothering'; someone will break you up. If you keep your promise and don't do it again, you have a good chance of being together. I broke up with men for that exact thing, I hate being around someone 24/7. Being clingy and smothering are not good qualities. You both discussed it maturely and it worked out, only proving what I always say, communication is the thing that if you don't have it, you will never have a good relationship. I hope it works out for both of you.
i see great things evolving from this relationship
I think that you made a good decision. However, there is no mention here about whether you learned from your past mistakes or not. What led you to break up? Are you still repeating your old mistakes? If so, then stop. Try to sort out your own issues and ask her to help you. If she feels pressured, tell her to tell you so that you can learn to control it. Trust me, your relationship will be much better.
I think its good that your giving her her space because if your around her all the time she wont have a chance to miss you. Me and my boyfriend wont see each other for three or four days so that when we see each other its more special and i actually miss him. So I think what you did was good you cant force a woman to commit just relax and continue to love her but dont over do it
good job!
Of course is good, you know it's not your fault. Everyone need to have personal space, and everyone need their air. It is also why we are different in our unique way.
It's a VERY mature move. Everyone needs space even people in a relationship, it's called trust %26amp; that's a HUGE part to making something last long term. It's GOOD to be able to survive on your own socially w/o your bf/gf....we need to be our own person first %26amp; someones significantother, second.
Why do people w/bad relationship experience (divorce, never married) always want to give relationship advice?
why is it, whenever you're in a relationship people (divorcees, spinsters, etc) always give unsolicited advice on how to get a man/please a man/keep a man?Why do people w/bad relationship experience (divorce, never married) always want to give relationship advice?
I don't think its as much divorcees, spinsters, etc. as much as it is that people always think they can solve whatever problems they think you have. (Look up Ralph Roughton's article on Listening.)
I know for some people who give advice, teach, etc...there's the old adage, ';Those that do, do. Those that don't, teach.';
In the end, I always tell my friends its easier for me to deal with other people's issues over my own because mine are a little too close to home. They're hard to handle. Stressful. And I rarely take my own advice!! LOL.Why do people w/bad relationship experience (divorce, never married) always want to give relationship advice?
Dont worry about that EVERYONE NOTICE thing, that was just my brother being stupid.
Just because someone is divorced or nevermarried doesn't mean that they don't have good advice to give, they may be able to give you different spin on it. I wouldn't diss it.
Thats a good question, I'm not sure maybe because they want to let people know what they did wrong.
I don't think its as much divorcees, spinsters, etc. as much as it is that people always think they can solve whatever problems they think you have. (Look up Ralph Roughton's article on Listening.)
I know for some people who give advice, teach, etc...there's the old adage, ';Those that do, do. Those that don't, teach.';
In the end, I always tell my friends its easier for me to deal with other people's issues over my own because mine are a little too close to home. They're hard to handle. Stressful. And I rarely take my own advice!! LOL.Why do people w/bad relationship experience (divorce, never married) always want to give relationship advice?
Dont worry about that EVERYONE NOTICE thing, that was just my brother being stupid.
Just because someone is divorced or nevermarried doesn't mean that they don't have good advice to give, they may be able to give you different spin on it. I wouldn't diss it.
Thats a good question, I'm not sure maybe because they want to let people know what they did wrong.
Relationship advice? Serious answers please!?
Ok I have been in a serious relationship with an older guy for 2 months. I am completely in love with him and he is wonderful to me. We have so much fun together and I know he is crazy about me. But here's the thing, there is a lot of baggage on his side. He was married young b/c his girlfriend at the time was pregnant, they seperated 6 months after the baby was born b/c she was crazy. Then 3 years ago his brother commited suicide and his wife took off with his child. Right now he is in the middle of divorcing her, she has to sign the papers. Because of all this he is a bit afraid of marriage and having kids again. So about a week ago I said ';I love you'; for the first time. He told me he was falling in love w/ me more everyday. It kind of hurt and I have not said it since. To make matters worse I work in a restaurant and a guy came %26amp; he left his number %26amp; a note. Well I called him and we went out to a late dinner that night. There was no kissing but he paid so it was like a date. Help!!Relationship advice? Serious answers please!?
1. Be patient with the first guy. he will respond when he is ready
2. Make up your mind. Either be with this guy or date around, but don't do both.Relationship advice? Serious answers please!?
whats the question?
Say goodbye to the married guy... no such thing as a ';serious'; relationship for just 2 months and better yet he is still married. Dont be stupid.... feel free to leave and start dating.
1. Be patient with the first guy. he will respond when he is ready
2. Make up your mind. Either be with this guy or date around, but don't do both.Relationship advice? Serious answers please!?
whats the question?
Say goodbye to the married guy... no such thing as a ';serious'; relationship for just 2 months and better yet he is still married. Dont be stupid.... feel free to leave and start dating.
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