If you are in love with your ';so called'; partner and he has phone sex and/or oral sex would you consider this to be cheating.NEED relationship ADVICE??????
Anything done sexual with someone else besides u is cheating....don't tolerate it...NEED relationship ADVICE??????
if you have not given your permission, it is cheating.
YES, having sex with others.. It's UNFAITHFUL
If he was having any kind of sexual activity out of your relationship and you didn't agree to it then YES, he is chesting!
yes i would..dump the loser and find some one faithful.
yes especially oral sex
Most definately!
I was in a relationship with a guy for 18 months. The first 6 were fine and then I found out he was inviting guys round when I was at work. Running up the phone bill on chat lines and just, generally, taking the f*****g p**s right out of me. He must have thought I was zipped up the back!
What a shock he got then, when he came home one day to find all his belongings turfed out in the street.
';Whats all this about?'; Was his question.
';The worm has turned!'; Was my reply. ';Goodbye!!';
Yes. Unless of course it's with you.
What I think is not necessarily important to your conduct.
You, bringing this matter forward, obviously believes it is cheating. Now, what are you going to do about it?
(Yes, I would consider it cheating.)
Um yes. Any sexual or romantic activity outside of the relationship and without an agreement between both partners is cheating.
if my partner did that, i would most definitely consider it cheating.
Saturday, August 21, 2010
Need relationship advice...PLEASE HELP?
my bf and i have been together for 3.5 years... just 3 weeks ago, we both decided that we needed some space, or rather a ';break';....an honest break, not the sort to go and possibly date other people... just some much needed time to reconnect with ourselves and heal from the pain we caused one another. we both hurt eachother, which i suppose is natural in a nearly 4 year relationship...and each time we said we'd start over with a ';blank slate';, start ';new';...problem is, we never did - we both clinged so tight to the past that is was nearly impossible to move forward...thus, this toxic resentment and bitterness saturated our relationship for the past year.
i love him and am respecting his wishes for me to not contact him...so he can have proper time to heal ... but i miss him and am so eager to start new...these past 3 weeks have been so revealing for me and i am thankful .... does this sound like a ';healthy'; break to you? please share your experience/perceptions with me. thank u dearlyNeed relationship advice...PLEASE HELP?
Honestly no break is healthy.. Expecially if there has been alot of hurting on both parties.. Its kind of hard to let go of the past due to both of you are scared on getting hurt again on that same level.. Love is a very interesting thing, sometimes people are more convinced they are in love with someone when its really they love the fact of having that person around. From my own experiences having alot of neg. past problems then having a break only makes things worse because then you ask yourself was it worth it? What did he do on his break yada yada.. Faithful or not the question will always ponder in your mind.. Im sorry to hear about your problem best of luck..Need relationship advice...PLEASE HELP?
it dosnt sound like healthy brake to me. you can take a break from each other, but have contact as a friend. friendship is realy important in realationship. you gotta a have a friendship foundation in realationship. sometime it is good to talk things out and solve it. when you talk things out, talk as a friend. if there is a problem , there is a soultion. joining two people isnt easy thing. have to have honest toward eachother, understanable, negoctiateable, respect, kindness, careness, and etc... . i recommand the book called ';couple Puls , understand yourself and the one you love'; , i believe that this book will help you a lot. trust me. here is a link http://www.amazon.com/Personality-Plus-C鈥?/a>
i love him and am respecting his wishes for me to not contact him...so he can have proper time to heal ... but i miss him and am so eager to start new...these past 3 weeks have been so revealing for me and i am thankful .... does this sound like a ';healthy'; break to you? please share your experience/perceptions with me. thank u dearlyNeed relationship advice...PLEASE HELP?
Honestly no break is healthy.. Expecially if there has been alot of hurting on both parties.. Its kind of hard to let go of the past due to both of you are scared on getting hurt again on that same level.. Love is a very interesting thing, sometimes people are more convinced they are in love with someone when its really they love the fact of having that person around. From my own experiences having alot of neg. past problems then having a break only makes things worse because then you ask yourself was it worth it? What did he do on his break yada yada.. Faithful or not the question will always ponder in your mind.. Im sorry to hear about your problem best of luck..Need relationship advice...PLEASE HELP?
it dosnt sound like healthy brake to me. you can take a break from each other, but have contact as a friend. friendship is realy important in realationship. you gotta a have a friendship foundation in realationship. sometime it is good to talk things out and solve it. when you talk things out, talk as a friend. if there is a problem , there is a soultion. joining two people isnt easy thing. have to have honest toward eachother, understanable, negoctiateable, respect, kindness, careness, and etc... . i recommand the book called ';couple Puls , understand yourself and the one you love'; , i believe that this book will help you a lot. trust me. here is a link http://www.amazon.com/Personality-Plus-C鈥?/a>
Fire. Fire. Fire. Me, The Archer need some relationship advice with my Lion.?
Okay, so I think I've found my soul mate. He temps me like crazy. He's got me and I know it. We are currently dating and so in love with each other.
However, we are both fire signs. Even though we are both very noisy and loud but we also have a quiet side, with each failing to voice how we truly feel. Sometimes, he thinks I'm toying him but I know that deep down he knows I'm dead serious about him.
What Can i do more to make him believe that I have fallen head over heals in love with him and he's the only guy who makes me want to be better and be committed to him.
ThanksFire. Fire. Fire. Me, The Archer need some relationship advice with my Lion.?
It's call love.Fire. Fire. Fire. Me, The Archer need some relationship advice with my Lion.?
what you wrong. i do know what you mean.. its love but that does not say that the universe helps you with finding your soul mate. Report Abuse
your sign is a mutable sign and his is a fixed sign. mutable signs like challenge and to always keep a guessing game going. while no one can challenge a Leo and get a way with it, they are not like that with the ones they love. in fact the only person that challenges a Leo is a lover, so you may like him to guess what you think about him, he will like you to tell him what you like about him. for a Leo words are meaningless unless they are followed by an action, which is not to say Sagittarius prefer words over action, so you will have no problem at making each other feel what you feel. good combination, love will always be there no matter where the relationship goes, however a Leo/Sagittarius partnership is the only good thing that often doesn't work, maybe most humans are not ready for perfect things. so don't take each other for granted because good times can distract both of you. unfortunately both Leo and Sagittarius live for the moment, which means with all the great things that happen to them, one single bad things can brake everything up.
wow, sags are usually pretty outspoken, i always blurt out how i feel, before even thinking about it. what you do, can be interpreted in a lot of different ways, when you say ';i love you';, that leaves absolutely no doubt about your intent.
I have a Leo Lion too. I'm a Sagittarius. We have been together 5 years and he's my soul mate. Were like best friends and I can truly talk to him about anything. He's so romantic and has never changed towards me in the 5 years I have been with him. You don't need to do anything to make him believe you have fallen head over heels in love with him. Any smart man will be able to feel it as well as see it. If you really want him to know how you feel about him then you need to tell him directly. He'll appreciate you coming out and being honest about it, but most of all he'll feel like a King!!! Remember that Leo men require a lot of attention. They can act like big babies when they feel ignored. Just give him attention and be loyal to him, and he will try his best to give you the world. When a Leo man loves you, he really loves you hard. Remember, show him attention and you'll have him eating out of your hand.
Leos are always insecure babies. They need constant reassurance that they are the biggest, the best, the greatest, handsomest, whatever. So tell him he's the only horse you'll ever wanna ride and keep assuring him that he's all of the above.
Tell him
adore him, spoil him and let him run things....he will be sweet to you while doing it..
Love isn't love unless it is expressed;
caring isn't caring unless the other person knows;
sharing isn't sharing unless the other person is included;
Loving, caring, and sharing can make for a very happy marriage.
hi , archer know that the leo is a flirter. before you know it hes chasing some other girl or most likely before he knows it you are chasing some other guy :)
If both have fire= throw gas on it.
Wow ---sounds like you could start a forest fire.
However, we are both fire signs. Even though we are both very noisy and loud but we also have a quiet side, with each failing to voice how we truly feel. Sometimes, he thinks I'm toying him but I know that deep down he knows I'm dead serious about him.
What Can i do more to make him believe that I have fallen head over heals in love with him and he's the only guy who makes me want to be better and be committed to him.
ThanksFire. Fire. Fire. Me, The Archer need some relationship advice with my Lion.?
It's call love.Fire. Fire. Fire. Me, The Archer need some relationship advice with my Lion.?
what you wrong. i do know what you mean.. its love but that does not say that the universe helps you with finding your soul mate. Report Abuse
your sign is a mutable sign and his is a fixed sign. mutable signs like challenge and to always keep a guessing game going. while no one can challenge a Leo and get a way with it, they are not like that with the ones they love. in fact the only person that challenges a Leo is a lover, so you may like him to guess what you think about him, he will like you to tell him what you like about him. for a Leo words are meaningless unless they are followed by an action, which is not to say Sagittarius prefer words over action, so you will have no problem at making each other feel what you feel. good combination, love will always be there no matter where the relationship goes, however a Leo/Sagittarius partnership is the only good thing that often doesn't work, maybe most humans are not ready for perfect things. so don't take each other for granted because good times can distract both of you. unfortunately both Leo and Sagittarius live for the moment, which means with all the great things that happen to them, one single bad things can brake everything up.
wow, sags are usually pretty outspoken, i always blurt out how i feel, before even thinking about it. what you do, can be interpreted in a lot of different ways, when you say ';i love you';, that leaves absolutely no doubt about your intent.
I have a Leo Lion too. I'm a Sagittarius. We have been together 5 years and he's my soul mate. Were like best friends and I can truly talk to him about anything. He's so romantic and has never changed towards me in the 5 years I have been with him. You don't need to do anything to make him believe you have fallen head over heels in love with him. Any smart man will be able to feel it as well as see it. If you really want him to know how you feel about him then you need to tell him directly. He'll appreciate you coming out and being honest about it, but most of all he'll feel like a King!!! Remember that Leo men require a lot of attention. They can act like big babies when they feel ignored. Just give him attention and be loyal to him, and he will try his best to give you the world. When a Leo man loves you, he really loves you hard. Remember, show him attention and you'll have him eating out of your hand.
Leos are always insecure babies. They need constant reassurance that they are the biggest, the best, the greatest, handsomest, whatever. So tell him he's the only horse you'll ever wanna ride and keep assuring him that he's all of the above.
Tell him
adore him, spoil him and let him run things....he will be sweet to you while doing it..
Love isn't love unless it is expressed;
caring isn't caring unless the other person knows;
sharing isn't sharing unless the other person is included;
Loving, caring, and sharing can make for a very happy marriage.
hi , archer know that the leo is a flirter. before you know it hes chasing some other girl or most likely before he knows it you are chasing some other guy :)
If both have fire= throw gas on it.
Wow ---sounds like you could start a forest fire.
Relationship advice, gay relationship - unsure of what to think anymore, HELP please.?
I have been with my bf now 3.5months and well all is well. It's a distance relationship, he's in Romania - I'm in Scotland but i come here often, im here now. Nowadays he's so tired, as he is working 7 days a week at the moment, so I can understand he is tired, but he is coming across as if it's a problem me being here, although he says it's not. We've had many problems before because i'm very insecure but we had sorted them out. He seems to come across as if he's going off, but i think and hope it's just because he is tired as he is working crazy hours, and really is a grumpy boy when he is tired. I am thinking and trying to do everything to please him and feel some affection back, i know he's tired but you know, you can tell a difference between tired and not interested. What things do you think i should be doing to make a relationship work ? What things can I do to help him just now except the obvious and what do you all think? Thank you so much! :) Scotty!Relationship advice, gay relationship - unsure of what to think anymore, HELP please.?
Look at all the time you are spending on him when he is acting not interested, maybe you should do the same... see where his heart lies.
I know its a game and I hate games myself. If he won't talk, then babe you might need to walk.Relationship advice, gay relationship - unsure of what to think anymore, HELP please.?
My girlfriend and I have a very similiar situtation and Im in your boyfriends seat. While she's here pretty much for a holiday Im working and studying and trying to show her a good time all at once. It does take it's toll.
I can understand that you are feeling insecure but I think this is one thing you are going to have to sit out. He is still interested. If he's not - he'd tell you. Only a super *** would drag you across a few countries only to ignore you.
My only suggestion is a little bow chikka bow wow. Or a really awesome massage where he doesnt feel obliged to do anything. These are, in my opinion, the best way to charge his battery and get a little lovin'
I really don't recommend long distance relationships. Relationships are tough enough without adding distance. You can't really get to know another person just by quick visits and phone calls. Seems like you would be better off living near each other or breaking up. I'm sorry to say that, but it's how I feel. Being so far away from each other for the majority of the time makes it hard to feel connected. And it sounds like you are not really connecting when you are in person, either. I wish you the best of luck.
Maybe you need to give him some breathing space.
Remember that absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Give him a chance to miss you.
Look at all the time you are spending on him when he is acting not interested, maybe you should do the same... see where his heart lies.
I know its a game and I hate games myself. If he won't talk, then babe you might need to walk.Relationship advice, gay relationship - unsure of what to think anymore, HELP please.?
My girlfriend and I have a very similiar situtation and Im in your boyfriends seat. While she's here pretty much for a holiday Im working and studying and trying to show her a good time all at once. It does take it's toll.
I can understand that you are feeling insecure but I think this is one thing you are going to have to sit out. He is still interested. If he's not - he'd tell you. Only a super *** would drag you across a few countries only to ignore you.
My only suggestion is a little bow chikka bow wow. Or a really awesome massage where he doesnt feel obliged to do anything. These are, in my opinion, the best way to charge his battery and get a little lovin'
I really don't recommend long distance relationships. Relationships are tough enough without adding distance. You can't really get to know another person just by quick visits and phone calls. Seems like you would be better off living near each other or breaking up. I'm sorry to say that, but it's how I feel. Being so far away from each other for the majority of the time makes it hard to feel connected. And it sounds like you are not really connecting when you are in person, either. I wish you the best of luck.
Maybe you need to give him some breathing space.
Remember that absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Give him a chance to miss you.
Unbalanced relationship......advice???
My fiance (with whom I have been with for almost 3 years) has been unemployed now for over 2 years. By way of Karma (or just pure luck) we sold 2 acres of inherited land of hers and now have purchased a home on 2 acres. We have lived together in our home for over a year now. For the entire duration of our ';co-habitation'; she has not contributed anything. I praise her for the sake of it being because of her we have our home, but in my opinion that does not justify her apathy towards responsibility and making this a 50/50 relationship. The entire finanicial burden is on my shoulders. Every bill,every month..... What can I do to truly make her see she is hurting me deeply by not helping share the load so that positive change may come from it? I love her and want to be with her but by doing what she is doing she is hurting me beyond words. Also, she will look for a job only by faxing/emailing her resume and only rarely will she physically go somewhere and apply. H-E-L-P!!!!!!!!!Unbalanced relationship......advice???
The one thing you failed to mention was if the land and house purchases went in both your names.????????
If it did then I would say you've made out like a champ, and she deserves you to pay her back your half of her inherited land money which was hers
through no effort of yours. If not then your living in her house
and bill payment would replace rent payment to a landlord...
This major ommission changes any fair responce.
All this should be discuss before you go any further in a relationship that may someday consist of childern the care
giver role..Unbalanced relationship......advice???
I think that you should take money from the land that was sold, then figure up what the montly bills are that you are wanting her to contribute to and she should not have to pay any bills until you have contributed as much as she has.
Example: Land was sold for 50,000
Monthly bills 4000
Her half 2000
So that would mean that she would not contribute anything for 25 months. Then it would be equal.
She has already done way more then her fare share!coupons
The one thing you failed to mention was if the land and house purchases went in both your names.????????
If it did then I would say you've made out like a champ, and she deserves you to pay her back your half of her inherited land money which was hers
through no effort of yours. If not then your living in her house
and bill payment would replace rent payment to a landlord...
This major ommission changes any fair responce.
All this should be discuss before you go any further in a relationship that may someday consist of childern the care
giver role..Unbalanced relationship......advice???
I think that you should take money from the land that was sold, then figure up what the montly bills are that you are wanting her to contribute to and she should not have to pay any bills until you have contributed as much as she has.
Example: Land was sold for 50,000
Monthly bills 4000
Her half 2000
So that would mean that she would not contribute anything for 25 months. Then it would be equal.
She has already done way more then her fare share!
Need Relationship Advice...HELP!?
I have been involved with the love of my life for about 3 years. It begin when I was 18 and I was still young and immature. We have been through alot, the lying and cheating, jealously, you name it. He up and moved to Florida about 1 1/2 ago and I changed my number and haven't spoken to him the whole year. He called me the other day and said he tracked my number down. To get to the point, he wants me to move to Florida and get married. I'm not sure because I have my own place and responsiblities. I love this man and I know if I'm not with him I will not be completely happy but I don't know if I'm ready to jump up and move when we haven't really been together face to face in a while.
Need Advice... thanxNeed Relationship Advice...HELP!?
Sound you are really unsure and you have the right to be, moving in with someone especially if they live across the country is a huge step. First of all because you have established your self in the past here nad really become your own person away from him. You say you haven't talk in a year, that's a long tme and two people can change alot in two years. Sometimes for the better and soemtimes for the worse. I suggest starting off very slow, you don't want to move in so quickly it overwhelms you. Try to visit him for a week or two and spend time together and see how things go first. Once you do that then you will know whats right for you.
good luckNeed Relationship Advice...HELP!?
Visit Florida first. Just go to visit. Talk to him, and let whatever happens, happen. If you have a history, I think it will be easier than you think.
If you are seriously considering this, you are still young and immature.
only you can make the decision but this i can tell you if he cheated hell do it again so think youre decision and be very sure of what you want besides sometimes is better to be alone than what a bad person
Difficult to help you but I would try my best. You should not jump into the marriage. You must give careful consideration first. Are both of you mature enough now? Does he have a stable job and secure financial situation? Do you really like to bear his child and take care of him and his child? Would you regret if you are not living with him in the future? If the answers to the above are ';YES';, tell him the truth. Share with him the difficulties and if he truely loves you, he would understand your situation and help you to solve the problems together..... and both of you would be together eventually.
Cheers.
Well you shouldn't be the one making the sacrifice to move to florida to get married. He should make the sacrifice. You have you whole life were you live. Why don;t you tell him to come see you.
Then you can make a fair decision.
Nessa, how you still love the man and haven't been with him in a year and a half. You mean to tell me you haven't met any other guys, you haven't had sex since him? Then you also said there was lying and cheating, that should be enough right there to let it go, unless you were the one who was doing the cheating. If he left you before he can and probably leave you again. You need to think hard on this one and pray about it too.
its been a y ear and a half since you've seen him. people change. you cant be for certain he's STILL the man you love
OK your nice and happy here why move. Well think of it he has cheated and lied to you. Do you think he won't do it again. Especially if he knows he can get away with it. It is a good thing if you just stayed there and be happy and not gt yoru heart broken again
Before you get married and live together, you need to really know each other. You're right to be cautious. If you are interested in him, start visiting each other and see how things go.
I wouldn't jump into things right now. Think back and remeber why it didn't work the first time. I'd reconnect slowly and see if things have really changed. Another problem is you don't know how each other have changed over the course of a year and a half. You probably aren't the same people and once together you may not even feel the same way .
Why after a year and a half he decides now that he wants to marry you? Where was that devotion when he was packing to go to Florida? You can marry him, if you want a life packed with lying, cheating, and jealously. Ten times out of ten, the relationship that y'all had before he left is going to be the same type of relationship that y'all will always have. You don't have to rush and decide, unless he decides to up and move again.
Gurl go get down ................get married!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Just tell him what you told us. If he has matured, he will understand and work with you to find out if this is the best course of action for the two of you. I love happy endings, so I wish you both the best of luck.
If he truly loved you whay would he have moved away a year and a half ago?
he loves you he tracked your number if you love him you'll go to him
FOLLOW UR FIRST MIND, BUT IF U REALLY LOVE HIM TAKE THE CHANCE, OR TRY GETTING SOME1 2 HOLD UR PLACE DOWN IN CASE U CHANGE UR MIND
Are you serious? Listen honey, if this guy actually loved you he would not have left 1 1/2 years ago. Not sure you are getting the whole story here. Why did he suddenly change his mind? Plus, I am sure you will find someone that you don't have to worry about the lying and cheating that will make you completely happy. You are only 21!!! Live life a little while longer before getting married.
I would try to reconnect slowly to be sure that your feelings are still the same when you are face to face. Then, date long distance for a period of time. After that, you will know. If you truly love him, you will feel at home with him regardless of where you live. Best of luck!
I am a romantic at heart and I guess you should go for it! The reason is that first of all, dont worry abt why he had moved.. ppl make mistakes but it is clear he missed you a lot and thus tracked u down.. secondly, he is not messing up with u and is proposing marriage, which is a positive sign provided he has a stable job or a degree... Girl just go for it! U know u love him.. why wonder all ur life.. ';what if i had moved';.. just do it and see what happens.. I wish u all the best!
Don't do it if he wants you that bad he will work out things with himself like coming to see you going on dates, but why did he up an move like that and you haven't talked to him in a year! There are easier ways to get someones phone number that doesn't take a year.
I'd find out why he left. (a failed online relationship?..etc)
Visit him first...get a room close to his place.
Check things out first...ask to meet some people in his circle.
I would'nt just move.
tell him that u like it where you are. tell him that u love him and all that, but you have responsibilities to take care of. just tell him how you feel. since you guys havnt talked face to face in a while, tell him that you would like to wait, and catch up with him. :)
Need Advice... thanxNeed Relationship Advice...HELP!?
Sound you are really unsure and you have the right to be, moving in with someone especially if they live across the country is a huge step. First of all because you have established your self in the past here nad really become your own person away from him. You say you haven't talk in a year, that's a long tme and two people can change alot in two years. Sometimes for the better and soemtimes for the worse. I suggest starting off very slow, you don't want to move in so quickly it overwhelms you. Try to visit him for a week or two and spend time together and see how things go first. Once you do that then you will know whats right for you.
good luckNeed Relationship Advice...HELP!?
Visit Florida first. Just go to visit. Talk to him, and let whatever happens, happen. If you have a history, I think it will be easier than you think.
If you are seriously considering this, you are still young and immature.
only you can make the decision but this i can tell you if he cheated hell do it again so think youre decision and be very sure of what you want besides sometimes is better to be alone than what a bad person
Difficult to help you but I would try my best. You should not jump into the marriage. You must give careful consideration first. Are both of you mature enough now? Does he have a stable job and secure financial situation? Do you really like to bear his child and take care of him and his child? Would you regret if you are not living with him in the future? If the answers to the above are ';YES';, tell him the truth. Share with him the difficulties and if he truely loves you, he would understand your situation and help you to solve the problems together..... and both of you would be together eventually.
Cheers.
Well you shouldn't be the one making the sacrifice to move to florida to get married. He should make the sacrifice. You have you whole life were you live. Why don;t you tell him to come see you.
Then you can make a fair decision.
Nessa, how you still love the man and haven't been with him in a year and a half. You mean to tell me you haven't met any other guys, you haven't had sex since him? Then you also said there was lying and cheating, that should be enough right there to let it go, unless you were the one who was doing the cheating. If he left you before he can and probably leave you again. You need to think hard on this one and pray about it too.
its been a y ear and a half since you've seen him. people change. you cant be for certain he's STILL the man you love
OK your nice and happy here why move. Well think of it he has cheated and lied to you. Do you think he won't do it again. Especially if he knows he can get away with it. It is a good thing if you just stayed there and be happy and not gt yoru heart broken again
Before you get married and live together, you need to really know each other. You're right to be cautious. If you are interested in him, start visiting each other and see how things go.
I wouldn't jump into things right now. Think back and remeber why it didn't work the first time. I'd reconnect slowly and see if things have really changed. Another problem is you don't know how each other have changed over the course of a year and a half. You probably aren't the same people and once together you may not even feel the same way .
Why after a year and a half he decides now that he wants to marry you? Where was that devotion when he was packing to go to Florida? You can marry him, if you want a life packed with lying, cheating, and jealously. Ten times out of ten, the relationship that y'all had before he left is going to be the same type of relationship that y'all will always have. You don't have to rush and decide, unless he decides to up and move again.
Gurl go get down ................get married!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Just tell him what you told us. If he has matured, he will understand and work with you to find out if this is the best course of action for the two of you. I love happy endings, so I wish you both the best of luck.
If he truly loved you whay would he have moved away a year and a half ago?
he loves you he tracked your number if you love him you'll go to him
FOLLOW UR FIRST MIND, BUT IF U REALLY LOVE HIM TAKE THE CHANCE, OR TRY GETTING SOME1 2 HOLD UR PLACE DOWN IN CASE U CHANGE UR MIND
Are you serious? Listen honey, if this guy actually loved you he would not have left 1 1/2 years ago. Not sure you are getting the whole story here. Why did he suddenly change his mind? Plus, I am sure you will find someone that you don't have to worry about the lying and cheating that will make you completely happy. You are only 21!!! Live life a little while longer before getting married.
I would try to reconnect slowly to be sure that your feelings are still the same when you are face to face. Then, date long distance for a period of time. After that, you will know. If you truly love him, you will feel at home with him regardless of where you live. Best of luck!
I am a romantic at heart and I guess you should go for it! The reason is that first of all, dont worry abt why he had moved.. ppl make mistakes but it is clear he missed you a lot and thus tracked u down.. secondly, he is not messing up with u and is proposing marriage, which is a positive sign provided he has a stable job or a degree... Girl just go for it! U know u love him.. why wonder all ur life.. ';what if i had moved';.. just do it and see what happens.. I wish u all the best!
Don't do it if he wants you that bad he will work out things with himself like coming to see you going on dates, but why did he up an move like that and you haven't talked to him in a year! There are easier ways to get someones phone number that doesn't take a year.
I'd find out why he left. (a failed online relationship?..etc)
Visit him first...get a room close to his place.
Check things out first...ask to meet some people in his circle.
I would'nt just move.
tell him that u like it where you are. tell him that u love him and all that, but you have responsibilities to take care of. just tell him how you feel. since you guys havnt talked face to face in a while, tell him that you would like to wait, and catch up with him. :)
Is a long distance relationship (1300 miles) possible mainly through e mails and phone calls? Any advice?
i did it with a girl in china, but i can afford it. if you can trust each other and be faithfull and make arrangments to meet on occasion then of course it can work. both should get skype cams. phone calls would not cost you at all as well as emailing each other often. i married my china doll and is the best thing i ever did.Is a long distance relationship (1300 miles) possible mainly through e mails and phone calls? Any advice?
Distance really shouldn't be used as a measure of the likelihood of a relationship working or failing, because it isn't.
I suggest you talk as often as possible, try for at least every second day, and have good topics to discuss. You should discuss what happened in your days, etc. but you should also discuss other issues. Get a topic to discuss, e.g. a tv program you both enjoy, or a book you've both read. You should also aim to discuss more important issues, like your fears, desires and future plans. If you're in a normal relationship, this kind of discussion will come normal. If you're long distance, you have to focus to make it work.
The better your communication, the more you will trust each other, and the easier it will be for you to commit to each other. Communication, commitment and trust are the three pillars of a long distance relationship. Work on those 3 and you'll be fine.
You should still try and see each other as often as possible. I'm not going to give you a time limit like ';every four weeks';, etc. Figure out what you can afford to do and plan your life around it. Friends of mine only managed to see each other every 3 months for over a year, and it worked out fine for them. We personally tried for every 4-6 weeks (usually only for a weekend).Is a long distance relationship (1300 miles) possible mainly through e mails and phone calls? Any advice?
its nothing harm in long distance relationship, as long as you both are having good and proper understanding for eachother. Trust, love %26amp; carings are the main key features for this type of relations....
Its nothing harm at all........ You should carry on with this if u are involve with someone. Good luck %26amp; God bless you.
It's not impossible, but not advisable.
Long distant relations do not have physical contact and that is the downfall for most who try to challenge it.
its so boring am tellin you..no kisses,no hugs just empty memories of how happy you used to be.........
Distance really shouldn't be used as a measure of the likelihood of a relationship working or failing, because it isn't.
I suggest you talk as often as possible, try for at least every second day, and have good topics to discuss. You should discuss what happened in your days, etc. but you should also discuss other issues. Get a topic to discuss, e.g. a tv program you both enjoy, or a book you've both read. You should also aim to discuss more important issues, like your fears, desires and future plans. If you're in a normal relationship, this kind of discussion will come normal. If you're long distance, you have to focus to make it work.
The better your communication, the more you will trust each other, and the easier it will be for you to commit to each other. Communication, commitment and trust are the three pillars of a long distance relationship. Work on those 3 and you'll be fine.
You should still try and see each other as often as possible. I'm not going to give you a time limit like ';every four weeks';, etc. Figure out what you can afford to do and plan your life around it. Friends of mine only managed to see each other every 3 months for over a year, and it worked out fine for them. We personally tried for every 4-6 weeks (usually only for a weekend).Is a long distance relationship (1300 miles) possible mainly through e mails and phone calls? Any advice?
its nothing harm in long distance relationship, as long as you both are having good and proper understanding for eachother. Trust, love %26amp; carings are the main key features for this type of relations....
Its nothing harm at all........ You should carry on with this if u are involve with someone. Good luck %26amp; God bless you.
It's not impossible, but not advisable.
Long distant relations do not have physical contact and that is the downfall for most who try to challenge it.
its so boring am tellin you..no kisses,no hugs just empty memories of how happy you used to be.........
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