Relationship advice.omg some one please help me !?

omg .


well let me start off.


im 15 and never cheated or any thing


very loving and friendly.


i have been going out with this guy for 8 months now.


recently i have been hanging out with this guy and today he kissed me !


he knew i was going out with him and there even friends.


i duno what to do


i pretened to be sick so i can come home and cry.


i am disapointed in myself.


he acts as if we were going out


i do like him i admit,


i just love my bf tho.


omg sum one help me plz.


i need some serious help.


%26amp; id appreacte it if i didnt get any negative answers.


i NEVER thought i would do this.


plz some one help me ) :Relationship advice.omg some one please help me !?
Wow. Sounds like a serious problem.


First of all, Your dating at 15? It's a good thing your not my daughter. Second, your only 15. What I am trying to tell you is that you shouldn't be exclusive at such a young age. If you and your boyfriend stay together until your 20 and then you marry him, what are the chances that you will go the rest of your life wondering what life would have been like if you had gotten to know more people. My mother once told me that in the wrong circumstances, familiarity breeds contempt. What that basically means is that the more you and bf become familiar with each other the less attractive you will be to each other.





Bottom line is BIG DEAL. You kissed a boy. This does not make you a bad person. It makes you a young person experiencing life. Relax, let your hair down, and enjoy your youth. You have the rest of your life to be miserable.Relationship advice.omg some one please help me !?
Hunny, first stop crying and second you are 15, things aren't that bad, you need to call the boy you kissed and tell him you are sorry but you have a boyfriend and that is a far as it will go. Second call your boyfriend and tell him, let him know that you got caught up in the moment but you love him and it will never happen again, if you are honest I sure things will come out okay. And Hunny talk to your MOM I have 3 teens myself I gave this advice to my 16 daughter just a few days ago, I know that as a mom I wanted to be there and I am sure your MOM does too, so let her know hat is going on she may even have a few tips for you to use. Good Luck.
Hello, I do hope I can help you. It seems like you need to make a decision before it is exposed that you have an interest in two guys at the same time.





Once you make a decision not with your heart but with your mind and heart together, it will hopefully make you feel better.





Good luck, and I hope things work out in your favor.
If you dont want it to go any further with this Other guy then you need to tell him so and Stop hanging out with him. Come clean with your boyfriend too. You will always wonder if someone is going to tell him if you dont and believe me it should come from you and not someone else. It may even hurt your relationship if you dont.Hope he will be understanding enough to forgive you. Tell him you didnt expect it and that the other guy kissed you and you didnt kiss him back.
grow up!!
You have your whole life ahead of you so get a grip baby!





First of all, you NEVER, NEVER, NEVER allow yourself to desire so much attention from someone that you get yourself into this kind of a bind.





You must first be true to yourself before you can be true to anyone else.





NEVER get involved with your boyfriends friends.
Let's just say that you had a tiny piece of that forbidden apple and now you're full of guilt. And you know what? That piece just might get a bit bigger as time goes by. Know your limits. Let him know his limits. Okay?
if you really love your boyfriend you should explain the situation to him before his friend tells your boyfriend that you were all over him(which obviously didn't happen). . .





From experience I can tell you that one way or another the situation is going to come up and the longer you wait and more commited you and your boyfriend get the worst the situation is going to be





Bring your boyfriend to your house or somewhere else where you feel comfertable and the two of you can be alone. tell him that you have been hanging out with his friend recently doing nothing but hanging out and then explain what happened with the whole kiss (like he kissed you and you pushed him away, you kissed back, etc). Don't lie about the situation tell him the truth . . . he deserves to know, and if he loves you as much as you do him he should understand it wasn't your fault and hopefully things will go back to normal





Good Luck!
Well just tell the guy that kissed u to leave u alone b/c u got a man and u love him... and tell ur man the truth... that HE KISSED YOU!!!! And if he breaks up with u... then you'll know that yall just were not meant to be
Tell him you're going out with someone and that you think it was very thoughtless and rude of him to just kiss you without asking you if it was okay.
Ditch the guy you kissed, and stick to your BF. Dont worry about it, your only fifteen trust me its a lesson learned.
ditch the guy that kissed you and tell your bf that he came on to you. If he really loves you he would still be there and not be friends with hte guy that kissed you. obviously the guy that kissed you does not care about anything. TELL your bf the whole truth though even though it might hurt the key to a realtionship is trusting one another
Sweetie, in all honesty, all you did was learn a lesson. And hopefully you DID learn. Honesty will always be the best way to go, and hearing your truth first will be much better than him hearing the other guys truth.


You shouldn't be putting yourself into these situations in the first place. I hate to be mean to guys, but they are opportunistic. Stop tempting fate by hanging out alone with other guys. It's natural for them to make a move and test the boundries. This will carry through your whole life. It's sad, and true, they can be dogs. You need to keep an eye out for those that don't respect their friends, because they sure won't respect you.


Don't forget your part as well, it does take two. Remember this in the future, and behave in a way that you can be proud of.


Good luck.