Monday, November 21, 2011

Why do people w/bad relationship experience (divorce, never married) always want to give relationship advice?

why is it, whenever you're in a relationship people (divorcees, spinsters, etc) always give unsolicited advice on how to get a man/please a man/keep a man?Why do people w/bad relationship experience (divorce, never married) always want to give relationship advice?
I don't think its as much divorcees, spinsters, etc. as much as it is that people always think they can solve whatever problems they think you have. (Look up Ralph Roughton's article on Listening.)





I know for some people who give advice, teach, etc...there's the old adage, ';Those that do, do. Those that don't, teach.';





In the end, I always tell my friends its easier for me to deal with other people's issues over my own because mine are a little too close to home. They're hard to handle. Stressful. And I rarely take my own advice!! LOL.Why do people w/bad relationship experience (divorce, never married) always want to give relationship advice?
Dont worry about that EVERYONE NOTICE thing, that was just my brother being stupid.
Just because someone is divorced or nevermarried doesn't mean that they don't have good advice to give, they may be able to give you different spin on it. I wouldn't diss it.
Thats a good question, I'm not sure maybe because they want to let people know what they did wrong.

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