Age gaps and relationship advice...?

Ive been with my boyfriend for around 6 months now, but im worried im getting feelings for this guy at my workplace. He's 21 and im 17- anyone think that's too big a gap? Now I would never ever cheat, so obviously if these feelings get too strong i'll have to end things with my current boyfriend, but i honestly do love him and don't want to do that. Yet i cant be with one boy and sometimes think about another.


Help please?


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its not that big of a gap, my friends grandparents are 10 years apart, and my other friends know a couple that are 15 years apart


if you really love your boyfriend then dont end things and eventually you'll forget about the guy at your workplace, if that doesnt work then just tell your boyfriend that you still love him but you have feelings for another guy as well and you want to see other peopleAge gaps and relationship advice...?
no i dont think that age gap is too big! im 16 and my boyfriend is 19, we have been together for 2 years 7 months now and people make a big deal out ov the age but as long as you dont mind the age gap then you should just ignore other people.


also i would wait for a bit and see how your feelings are for this other boy, if they get any more and you dont think you can be just a friend then you should think things over with your current boyfriend. hope u are ok x
No need to overexplain. Being in a relationship doesn't mean you aren't human. You'll always see someone else who is attractive and just does it for you. This happens to everyone at some point, and multiple times even. This could just be an infatuation, but if you keep spending time with this other person, then it will develop into something more. Falling in love with someone isn't a complicated process.





But if you really want to explore things with this other person then break up with your bf, and stop depriving yourself. 17 and 21 is not a huge gap.
maybe its just a physical attraction? i dont think that's a huge age gap. but also think about what u would be missing if u dumped ur awesome bf of 6 months for a guy at ur work that u jus met. is it worth it?
Age doesn't matter; your heart does.
I think its technically against the law if you're under 18 and he's 21. If you really loved your boyfriend you wouldn't have feelings for someone else.
i think u should think this through, mayb its a phsical attraction; u know,dont throw away wat u have for somthing u dont know if it will last.
I think you need to figure out how you really feel here. Before you do anything like end your relationship with your current boyfriend, make sure you are 100% sure how you feel about this other guy.





I don't really think that age gap is too bad. I know a couple that are those exact ages. I don't think age really matters. When it comes down to it 4 years really isn't anything.





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