Relationship advice, very soap-opera-y...?

My good friend has always had feelings for a good guy friend and mutual friend of mine. Several years and relocations later, she's not past her feelings for him.


The catch, the dude has gotten married, but he's not happy. Should she say anything to him or keep her trap shut (my advice). She feels that somehow he'll be in here future. What would you say to her?


Looking for opinions. we're in our late 20's and none of us lives in a trailer, lol :)


ThanksRelationship advice, very soap-opera-y...?
She needs to get over it.... move on... have a life. Married guys always say they are miserable when they really enjoy being miserable.





Until she gets a life she will never be in a place to meet someone who is truly available to her.Relationship advice, very soap-opera-y...?
Wow. I think YOU should talk him and just re-analyze with him. Just ask casual questions about the marriage that would let him think it over. And if he's not happy he would get a divorce. Then she should move in and make her move. Great adding to the last part.
The catch sorta ruins things for your friend. Even if he's not happy, he's still married. And, until he gets a divorce, he's off limits and doesn't need a woman telling him that she's got it bad for him. Hopefully he realizes that maybe he could be happy if he left his current situation, but don't encourage your friend to be why he leaves.
she should continue to b a good friend let him make the first move if he is interested if she does it might mess up a real good friendship.maybe they could talk on the phone and see where that goes let him talk and open up,also ask the guy if he wants to go out to keep his mind busy to just have some fun.good luck