my boyfriend have been dating for 6 months. he lives in one state and i another. it is a two hour drive each way. we see each other on the weekends. i have made the comment 3 months ago that if things progressed between us that i would be willing to move where he is. i am at the point where i am ready to look for a new job....and find my own place(have been living with folks to pay off bills). is it a good idea to broach this subject with him now and how should i go about it?Need relationship advice?
if you already mentioned it before, i wouldnt bring it up again unless he does...if you do, it'll make you look desperate and needy...but, still everything depends on how much you guys love each other and how openly you talk about things in your relationship...Need relationship advice?
Moving to another state is a big step and can be expensive. You have only know this man for six months and three month after meeting him you approached him about moving. He knows your current living(living with parents) situation has he asked you to move in or move to the state he lives in? I would discuss the idea with my boyfriend and parents first to see what they think about moving . I know traveling 2 hours can be an exhausting task and soon one of you might not want to make the effort. I would assume that you do most of the driving to see him or does he get a hotel room when he comes to your state(since you live with your parents)You can use your resources and look for employment and an apartment via the Internet. If you are asking the question should you asked him again I guess he didnt give you the go ahead three months ago. He might be enjoying the distance or he thought it was to soon into the relationship either way he isnt ready. Dont bring it up again let him ask you bringing it up again might send a red flag.
Don't move for a relationship especially not one this new. If you are looking for a life change and you like where he lives then by all means go for it, but don't pin all of your hopes on him. Live your life for you and if the relationship is right it will all work out in the end.
If he is not bringing it up or asking you to come then he may not want you to come. DOnt bring it up and see what happens. YOu dont want to make it seem like you are desperatly over heels for him. Let him beg a little if he doesent than dont bother the waist of time or money.
****, im from ohio and i dated a girl from texas. and it has only been 6 months.. waiitttt, dont do it. I thought i wanted to do the same thing but after a year I didnt want anything to do with her.
girl, go on and move over there! nottins holdin u back and wat do u got to lose???: )
I would wait just a bit and see if he mentions it again
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