Saturday, July 31, 2010

Relationship advice!!Please Help?

My boyfriends been acting strange and all so we were talking and he was like whats wrong and i said i dont think you love me anymore, he got mad and i apoligize and he don't ant to hear it what should i do.





PLEASE HELP!!!!!Relationship advice!!Please Help?
Ask him to sit down and just talk if he got mad then I would say he is not your forever guy. your forever guy will care about you enough to want to talk about feelings and concerns you may have. sounds to me like he might be looking for a way out. talk to him and figure out how He feels too since love is a two way streetRelationship advice!!Please Help?
Ouch that is a sharp blow to both of you. Guys start to act what we consider strange because they know hey thats my girl she is going no where and they don't try as hard. By telling him you think that he doesn't love you anymore it might have been like a slap in the face to him. Its not that he isn't accepting your apology its that he is hurt that you would think he doesn't care. My advice is this. Instead of saying that he doesn't love you anymore try telling him I wonder whats wrong because we don't do this or you do that. Whats up? Everything ok? Explain to him why you came on this idea. Just dont' hound him as hard as that is. He will come around he's just upset at the moment. For further speculation turn the table. Use your reaction to those words to see what you would want him to say to console you.
The problem is that you are telling him how he feels, and you don't know that for sure. Maybe he is dealing with some family issues, or something that is truly important to him, and possibly your relationship. My girlfriend tells me all the time that she doesn't think I love her anymore and I get MAD, too. It's very hurtful to have your girlfriend say that to a man, especially one that really cares about you.


Just talk to him and sort this all out. GOOD LUCK!
if you tell this guy you think he doesnt love you anymore, he should not get angry at you...someone who cares for you would, instead, comfort you and reassure you that you are wrong, and that he does. Him getting angry at you is probably a red flag, sweetie. It might be hard, but your instincts ARE ALWAYS RIGHT. If you feel something is wrong on his end, it probably is. You should back off a little, and perhaps even break things off...just remember...it's OK to hurt, its ok to cry if you are sad. As stupid as it sounds, time really does heal all hurts. You will feel better each day, and glad that you love yourself enough to walk away if it isnt whats best for you.





good luck
I am going to be completely honest with you, girl.


There are two options:





1. He is thinking about something else in his life, like a family member that died or maybe he did not get onto a sports team.





2. He loves someone else, but he still might love you, and he doe not want to hurt your feelings.





It's probably the first one. Maybe ask him what's wrong again.





Good lucks! All my hopes are with you.
he probably got mad cause u said u don't think he love me any more but he probably do love you just tell him how you feel and tell him 2 tell you how he feel just talk about how you feel
You should talk to him about. It's not going to be completely over until both of you get this off your chests.
Ask him how he feels

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