I am absolutely clueless as to how to interpret this guy's actions. ok, so we have been friends for several months now, and he occasionally calls me up and we go somewhere, coffee, movies, etc, always just together. However, he never gives me any clues as to his feelings for me (or maybe I am so oblivious to that? :S). I know he is single, but I also know that he has lots of friends-girls, and that he has just lots of friends in general. Now, I kinda like him, but I really am not a girl who can act first, I need him to at least encourage me.... Do you have any clue as to what I could do? How should I interpret him? How can I clue him that I like him?
PS I am rather shy, too.Clueless, in need of relationship advice please!?
Ch猫re,
Si vous pr茅f茅rez ne pas faire le premier pas de fa莽on radicale, vous avez certainement le charme suffisant pour lui faire comprendre les choses de fa莽on tellement claire, par des regards, des sourires, des silences significatifs, des sous-entendus, que, m锚me s'il est timide, il finira par se d茅clarer...
Et si vous lui faisiez 茅couter la chanson de Claude-Michel Sch枚nberg, ';Le premier pas'; ? C'est une tr猫s jolie chanson, en plus, et elle serait tout 脿 fait appropri茅e : il ne pourrait pas ne pas comprendre le message.
Si, malgr茅 tout cela, il demeure obtus, t芒chez donc de brusquer les choses, quitte 脿 vous prendre un r芒teau...
Ce n'est pas bien agr茅able, certes. Mais je comprends d'autant mieux votre timidit茅 que j'茅tais moi-m锚me dans ce cas, jadis. Je pr茅f茅rais conserver une copine que, pour l'espoir d'en faire davantage, risquer de tout g芒cher en me d茅clarant 脿 tort... J'ai compl猫tement chang茅, et, croyez-moi, on s'en porte infiniment mieux.
Pour franchir ce cap, une seule solution : comprendre que l'on n'a vraiment rien 脿 perdre en se d茅clarant...
Ou alors, demeurez en l'茅tat, mais n'exprimez pas vos regrets. Ne vous f芒chez pas si je le dis aussi cr没ment.
Vous m'en eussiez voulu si je m'茅tais tu davantage !
:-))))Clueless, in need of relationship advice please!?
id say he likes u and is just shy. i think you should ask him out!
If he wants to be more than just a friend,he will let you know.Don't read more into this than there is.
Stay friends and see where it goes.If he wants to encourage you he will and you will know when the time comes.
There's no need to interpret him.Be his friend.Right now that's all he wants.
How to break the ice. The next time that you go to a movie together, Touch/or hold his hand. Easy enough. That simple act can speak volumes. It also may give him the courage to let you know how he feels. Either way you'll know how he feels
and gain insight you didn't have before.
maybe he is just as shy as you are. next time you two go to hang out or whatever look him straight into his eyes and smile if he looks deep into your eyes then you know. if he looks away awkwardly then you know he just thinks of you as a friend. good luck though.
the dude thinks he likes you... but every man has to obey the law that they cannont reveal their feels because they think you will ditch them... they rather show their affection through their action... u need to give him sometime, always be nice to him... then he feels comfortable about exposing his feelings.
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