Relationship advice????

I like this girl, not sure if I am going to date her. But, if we go on the first date, if we get a coffee or a drink or lunch, do I pay for her or does she pay? also how do I ask her are you paying for your own? Relationship advice????
just pay and be nice. :]


even if she refuses still pay for her.


don't even ask her.


:DRelationship advice????
ask her what she wants to do. and the 1st date you should pay bc ur takin HER time of her day to spend time wit YOU when she can b doing other things, so you pay, plus a woman lkes to feel like a man can hold his own im sure she can pay bt u get her to pay after she's known u longer and is more comfortable you kno
you pay. but if she says no i will, TWICE why not say you can pay for the tip or we can split it if you want
I would be nice and pay for hers, just out of the kindnesss of your heart. Maybe offer to pay and if she says no, I will pay then say ok, if you want to! :]
i don't know, i've dated alot of people and only ONCE has a guy paid for me when we went places. and he did it alot, when we ate out, when we went to the movies, and it just made me feel uncomfortable and awkward, in my opinion. you should both pay your share, unless you think she is the type of girl that would expect you to pay full price.





or try both. see what happens. good luck :D
I think a good system is that: whoever asks the other person on a date should pay for the food.





Another good system is that you take turns.


Or if it's expensive pay for your own.


If you go to a carnival or something, pay for your own entrance fee, but buy her stuff inside.. just don't blow all your money on her!! ... huh, but that might make her impressed...
Well if this is your first date with this girl then you definitely should pay. You never ask a girl if she's paying for her own even if she was the one to ask you out on the date. It is expected of the man to pay for a date and it is the chivalrous thing to do.
of course you should pay for her...
what's the polite thing to do?
you pay. Times have changed but girls still like to be wined and dined.
you pay


never ask her are u paying for ure own


she might offer to pay half but if she doesnt u pay






if you ';Invite'; someone .. you are expected to pay..


If you are invited, then you can expect them to pay,





but be prepared to pay for yourself considering since you're asking these things others might not know the general rules of etiquette either





the mutual decision to go somewhere together usually means individuals pay their own way..



you pay dont even ask her just put the money down for both
welcome to life,


noone can predict that it depends on the person!
Generally whoever asks pays, though I usually let her get the tip on the first date. After that it's dutch or take turns.





EDIT -- Don't pay too much of the time. You'll attract girls that expect it.
You definitely pay. Its very chivalrous and romantic :)
You pay.