Saturday, July 31, 2010

Some relationship advice, please help?!?

so theres this kid that i like on my bus. weve never talked before, but we always make eye contact in the hallways and smila at eachother. so this past friday i asked him if he could help me on some spanish homework, and he agreed. he was stuttering and i think he was nervous to talk to me.


soo. what are some cute/flirty conversation starters, but that dont sound to weird or anything. please help(:Some relationship advice, please help?!?
It could be that he stutters, and if that is the case, you can help him talk more easily if you slow your speech down so he will pattern his speech after you. If you act like you have all the time in the world and are not in a hurry for him to speak, he will have it easier. Do not finish his sentences or help him with words he is having problems with; just listen patiently until he finishes. Do no mention his stuttering or let your facial reaction show that it bothers or confuses you. Treat him like anyone who talks well.





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Well first of all, don't spend the whole time talking about other things, if you asked him for help in spanish and then didn't talk about it, it may look like you just asked him to talk to him, which might come off a little weird. I mean, if he likes you, he wouldn't mind that you just asked him to talk, but still.





But other then that, talk about school, music, movies, don't start off talking about boyfriends and dating, act like it's just a friend at first, then after maybe ask him to lunch or something.
Sometimes playful poking is used as a flirting method. Batter your eyelashes and keep up your smiles.





Simple conversation starters such as ';How was your day?'; Or ';How are you doing?'; shows you care.





Eventually you can ask, ';Are you dating anyone?'; That can be considered as flirting.





Be sure to invite him to events, or simply walk with him in the hallway.
First, look for simple little things that shows that he really likes you.


here are some stuff you should try:


When your having a convo with him standing up, try doing gestures like rubbing your arm and holding the side of you neck while your talking. if he mocks your moves without even noticing, thats one clue that he's totally into you!


when you guys are talking and his feet are both facing straight toward you, theres another sign! or if his pupils become larger thats how you know hes attracted to you! try those stuff and if he shows he likes you, take it to another level and try flirting.


Maybe a little friendly peck on the cheek or showing off your smile will make him crazy for you!!








Hope this works, -Mella
something to get you started might be school. i know it sounds lame but if you talk about teachers you dont like or something of the sort then it might break the ice with a common subject. after that you might talk aboout some funny movies. just something you can both laugh and have fun with. maybe after that he will be more comfertable and ask you on a date. that is what happened with me and my girlfriend.
try playing this game...


';ok, i'll ask you a question and answer it myself, then you anwer it.


then you do the same thing.';





and eventually, you'll learn everything you want to know about him.


just start out with simpke questions, like fav colors, then later get to more serious things.
Well, when he comes right through the door you and gets settled in always offer your guest a drink. If he says yes tell him what you have. If he says no just get started right away and show him the questions you don't get at all.
be cheesy and laugh it off. thts fun to do.


'; If you were homework... id do you every night';


or be childish and mess his hair


or sit real close so when you donw undertand kinda bump ur head iwht his an dbe liek i need you to radiat ur brian power!
Tell him that he is so helpful with your spanish, that you need help with something else. Then tell him you are not so good with guys, and ask him the same question you asked here.
Try this....but honestly it will come naturally.


http://www.links2love.com/flirting_1.htm
Maybe he is just shy in general.


Just keep opening up to him.


But, yes, I would say he is interested in you!





Alex








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Next time when you see him tell him you still need help with your spanish homework. Maybe then he would tell you when he can help you or not.
well just ask him during the Spanish helping if he ever would travel since he is learning it and just start from there u knw like tell him u wanna travel and get the conversation flowin!!!! hey help me with mine!! thx!!
You should just start making funny jokes or just playing around! If this guy likes you then it'll show. Just don't be too forward because guys hate that.
Just put a secret admirer inside of his locker and see what he do.
just kiss him on the cheek and watch him blush it will be funny

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