Sunday, July 25, 2010

Please help me. i need relationship advice. URGENTLY?

okay, i really like this guy and he really likes me too and and we get on really well, we always go to the park together and we go out to places alll the time. we have hugged, kissed, french kissed, held hands, he feels me all the time and i do the same back to him, we act as if we are boyfriend and girlfriend but we're not. please help me, i really want to go out with him, what can i do to make him ask me out ?





please give proper answers xPlease help me. i need relationship advice. URGENTLY?
Well the only thing I can think of is if you want him to ask you out you must tell him that you will no longer do any of those things utill you are officially dating because if you don't he will just keep at what he is doing and you will get no were in this relationship if you have any questions feel free to e-mail mePlease help me. i need relationship advice. URGENTLY?
You need to stop letting him treat you like a girlfriend until you get a clear message that he wants you as his girl. It is good that the only thing the two of you have done is hold hands and kiss. If you let a man get the benefits of a relationship without actually making you his girl, then he will keep you as a friend. He can see you and other girls to because you are not his girl. But honest with him and tell him that you want more than just a friend ship with benefits. If he tells you that he like things the way that they are and that he doesn't want a relationship, then you need to end it. Don't let people walk all over you. Don't settle for less just to have someone in your life. You don't want to be seen as someone that can be used.
why dont you be straight to him ask him...because i think what you have is like a pseudo relationship...and this is kinda unfair to us girls so ....ask him if he feels something for you ....nowadays its alright to ask the guy anyway like you said you were like boyfriends or girlfriends already in other words you were like a couple but you dont have any formality on it and you dont even know what you have..so its better to simply ask him and be honest you have that right.....
Just sort of casually bring up things in the conversation that involve the future. See how he responds to stuff like that. If he doesn't totally freak then ask something like, well, do you think we'll still be together then?





See what he says. Just sort of feel it out and don't spring it on him or anything.





Guys tend to scare easily. lol.
What i did was one day i was laying in bed with him i said so what r we really are we friends, dating what? he assked me what i wanted ot be i told him id really like to be his G/F but dont really wanna rush anythin he sadi too bad he wanted to be my boyfriend Asap.
ask him where you two stand. and then ask where you two are going. if he doens't want to date then he is probably just using you and you need to stop letting him make out with you and stuff until you are actually going out.
Don't wait for him -- he's getting what he wants without the commitment. Ask him. Or just tell him: ';I think we should date exclusively since we're kissing and doing everything like that anyway.';





If he says no, get rid of him.
Friends with Benefits is a great thing


as long as you not looking for a relationship with the person


ASk him how he thinks of you.
It sounds like he doesn't feel the need to ask you out.


You are already giving him everything without having to date you.


Maybe you should say to him ';How 'bout a real date?';
Why manipulate him to do what you want him to? No need for games here sweets, just seal the deal yourself. He does after all like you too!
Stop waiting for him. If you want something, no one will know if you don't say anything. YOU ask HIM out.





Good luck, doll. :)
Gurl maybe he is waiting for you to do the same, you never know...go on ahead and ask him out.
He is using you. Sorry. : (
grow up kid
ask him out instead! or ask him when hes gunna be yours?
just ask him no regrets if he says no then his loss

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