Men can I get some relationship advice?

I've been with a guy for about a month. He's 27 and he's only had one girlfriend. She treated him awfully and cheated on him. Well, he was afraid to trust another girl but he says he trusts me. The awful part is he's told me he loves me and now he's saying he doesn't know because he doesn't know for sure what love is but he thinks he does. He said he's trying and that he feels like he has some defense mechanism which keeps him from getting attached. I asked him if he wants to break up and he said no he wants to be with me and he's hoping he'll grow to love me. We don't get to see eachother too often due to his job and child. Is it possible that if he doesn't love me by now, he won't? It's been a month and a half.Men can I get some relationship advice?
A month and a half is only a fraction of a lifetime. It takes a little longer than that to know how two people really feel about each other. Give it more time, and reassure him that he can trust you. Do this by letting him know how you feel about him.


Also, be careful, he could be using this type of line to just get what he wants out of you.Men can I get some relationship advice?
He sounds very immature for 27. An obviously the experience isn't there. He doesn't love you. If he says he dont know if he is in love, he's not. I mean some times the spark just isn't there. Even when it seems it should be. 27 years old, one girl friend and he is already scared?





I would give it some more time, but in all honesty it doesn't sound like much will come of it.
He sounds like he is playing games, but only time will tell, if he is crazy about you, does he go out of his way to see you or do things for you? If not he probably just wants to get in your pants on the side. I would cool it and see if he pursue's you and tries hard to prove his love.
love takes time from experience. You have to gain more experience with him. I mean how can you truly know HOW much you love a person if you never went through the tough times together? That is where real love comes from. Once this happens and you stick with him he will love you. Until then just be patient, and understanding, or else he will feel pressured and his feelings will not be genuine
Hmmm... I see red flags all over the place... short answer is what are you willing to settle for... tons of other guys out there... this one sounds damaged...
A month and a half is nothing. Give it more time, like a year...
I think during the first few months you cannot be sure if you are in love with someone or not. You hardly know each other. You might have known each other as friends before. But you still only know each other as a couple for a short period. If I was yo I would relax. Enjoy the dating process and each others company. Don't worry about the future yet. If you continue to enjoy each others company for a long period of time love will grow or it won't. But for now just enjoy the ride.