Can anyone give relationship advice?

Ok so I am honestly head over heels in love with this guy. We have been friends since we were 13. We hang out almost every night, fool around and in public act like a couple. This has been going on for 4 months now. The problem is I had a child with his old best friend when we were 16. I have no contact with my ex and the guy I like doesn't really either but he feels guilty. You think he will ever get over it and date me offically?Can anyone give relationship advice?
He will if he's attracted to you 'in that way'. Tell him how you feel and whether he feels the same way to you. If he doesn't, then move on. Don't let him string you along either, you deserve an answer, not yeh..but'sCan anyone give relationship advice?
Honestly just mentioning guilt in this situation means allot considering neither of you have had contact with baby daddy. But even with that said his actions speak louder than words .%26amp; one would hope he is'nt just using baby-daddy for an excuse not to settledown with you? because if it really mattered ,he never would have aloud it to go any further than friends from the start. Don't get me wrong hunny, If your as head over heals as you say, you know in your heart , It's for real maybe he just needs more time? You do come w/child that's a big commitmant %26amp; If he shows effection in public already maybe he just wants babydaddy's blessing?
well basicaly he will fee guilty because that was his friend... and because u had a child with his friend...but if the guy feel the same way as u do of him he will eventually give u a chance because he will feel the trust between both of u and if u do end up dating he will end up treating ure child as a child of his own ....trust eachother give him sometime hell come to u watch...just listen to your heart... :)
First, you must tell him it's not his fault because it really isn't. If pregnancy was accidental, I believe it is, It's your fault and his friend's fault.


I can't see how he feels guilty about something he didn't do.


Anyway, you tell him that and see what happens.
Hol, give him more time and wait until he comes around. Keep playing it by ear, he sounds really confused about all of his emotions right now. I think that person is right, he might want a blessing from your ex.





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if he's a real man and likes you a lot then yes he will be able to move past that and date you. if you already act like a couple then i dont see the problem. just talk to him and let him know how you feel.
He may get over it. Maybe have him talk to his old best friend about it? Though that may be a very uncomfortable situation as well, if they don't really talk anymore....
Yes - if he is sincerely loving you - or if he is not sincere he will just flurt around you and make the best use of you .
yea.. he obviously likes you.. he'll get over it, espacially if the other guy isnt around..
It shouldn't bother him if he truly loves you, but pride will mess with some folks.
WHY?
just talk to him and let him know how you feel about him... talk to him about the situations ...and whats in your mind..
well to tell the truth i think due to my past experiences that a guy becomes mates with you or so close to you because they fancy you, and it sounds like he has issues with becoming your partner due to your ex. I don't know why though, as none of you have anything to do with him. Perhaps he also has issues with another man's child, i dunno, maybe not. I think you should tell him how you feel, if you have not already. If you find it difficult to do this them perhaps show him your question on here and your answers. The only problem of course could be that he doesn't think of you in that way and if you tell him then it might ruin your friendship. As it sounds though, being ONLY mates with him is eating you up already, I think you should open up to him and tell him all, you never know, he might be very happy as he might be thinking on the same lines. Good luck and all the best :) x