Saturday, August 21, 2010

Relationship advice?

What should i do?





A year ago my girlfriend was cheating a lying to me behind my back, and admitted to it a year down the relationship (yesterday)...she hasnt done any thing bad recently but here is a list of what shes done before





-my girlfriend cheated on me with my friend


-went to the movies with some random guy


-went to a club with some random guy and his friends


-went to a bar with her ex- boyfriend on xmas and cheated with him them


-went to a bar with her ex on new years and cheated then


-told me she only goes to clubs so guys can buy her free drinks


-admitted to excessively flirting with guys when i wasnt around





these were things done towards the end of last year...now she seems more committed and honest...





what should i do..and explain..thanks in advanceRelationship advice?
Ok I hope you dont take this as mean but ARE YOU CRAZY. Leave the Lying *****................... Once a cheater always a cheater. If she had done it once I would say give her a second chance but come on you have a whole list of things she has done. Please leave her because if you dont this will end in heartacheRelationship advice?
What do u mean what are you going to do now? the damage has obviously been done along time ago. she cheated on you numerous times and now that shes being ';faithful'; u want to end it. why didnt u think about that when she was pulling all her slutty schemes. she cheated, and the first time should have been the last time.
if you love her and care about her then forgive her and stay with her. at least she told you, if you feel like u cant trust her then leave her and find someone else or just tell her that u need some time apart so you can really think what you want.....just remember that the choice is urs.... best of luck to you
Do you trust this person after all that? If you do, then cool, keep the blinders over your eyes and keep taking her out. Hey, get married and live with a person who you know may be out with other men, who having babies that aren't yours....





Or, if you DON'T trust this person, maybe you can just move on and try to meet women who won't use you and pretend to be in a relationship.





The point of having a committed relationship is to experience that feeling of just being with that ONE person. If you like knowing your one person is out with lots of others, then you are in the right relationship. However, if you feel in your heart that your one person should think you are the one person too, then dump her and find a person who thinks the same...
cheater altert. I mean i flirt with girls even when I am in a relationship, but that stuff you listed is not good. dump her, i wouldn't trust that she is being 100% honest about not cheating in a while. however, you can do whatever you want. just seems like this girl is playing with you.
dump her cause she ain't doing nothing but doin u wrong and you deserve better then that should't nobody should ever get hurt like that or treated like that at all
Honestly, I believe that once someone finds out they can get away with cheating on someone, they will only do it more, get rid of her!!!


Trust me, you dont wanna stick around to see what else shes gunna pull, not only is she hurting you, but shes risking your health as well [ stds ].


Get the hell out of that relationship!!!
My dad once told me the most important thing in my whole life. If you dont know the right question to ask then you wont get the ancer you are looking for. You must know her right??? Well if she is honest then you must know what questions to ask to get the what ancers your looking for. If you just ask something thay (anyone) can tell you only half the truth at the time. It is still an ancer to your question, but its not the whole truth. Sence she is being honest with you then you just have to ask. Remember that she might just ancer the question that you asked but not tell you the whole truth.
you are bringing up the past that is not fair. And if you havent broke up with her for then the things happend then keep going. people make mistake and have to experience life but if she is being good now and has grown up then I think you should stick it out. but if she picks up her old ways, then this is a huge warning sign you better think about hard. Good luck to you to.

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