Monday, August 23, 2010

Relationship advice PLEASE!?

ok. so me and my girlfriend have like the most awesome time when spend time together. we only see each other like a couple of days a week. so we don't get the chance to be with each other a lot. and sometimes when we do get the chance to go out she either doesn't know if she can or doesnt want to, she doesnt say this but i can sense thats how she feels. she has mood swings sometimes too. she can be really happy one momment and the next she is sad and emo.. so any advice would help. thanx!Relationship advice PLEASE!?
maybe she's feeling a bit insecure or would prefer to just spend time with you. I can get like this with my boyfriend, I like being at home snuggling up on the sofa with a good movie whereas he likes going out and getting drunk so I end up having to drag myself out and then not really enjoying myself.





You should really talk to her about it and find out why, just approach the subject gently and DO NOT under any circumstances ask her if it is hormonal! Even if it is hormonal you may just end up with a smack in the mouth! lolRelationship advice PLEASE!?
Welcome to the world of women! Especially TEENAGE women!





Men have a difficult time understanding our mood swings. Mens hormones stay regularly stable, and they are less prone to mood swings. Women have major hormone fluctuations every month, and they fluctuate strongly day to day. So a woman may be very happy one day, the next might be quite cranky and down. If you add any stress, alcohol, pregnancy(more hormone fluctuations), depression-things can get really difficult.





Get used to it. Realize you are probably not the cause of her mood swings.





It sounds like it would be wise to talk to your girlfriend, and tell her you sense she's not that interested in the relationship. She may say you are right. Or she may say you are wrong, but she has other stressful things going on in her life that makes it difficult. Don't just ';assume';. Talk to her. And then, listen to her. It could be that she needs someone to lean on right now, as much as someone to have a good time with.
Haha. Dont worry about the emotional stuff, unless its happens all the time. Girls and mood swings are very normal. (esspecailly when shes on her period).


About the other stuff. I dont know why she wouldnt want to hang out or spend time with you. I know my bf (well, not quite, but almost) is in PA at school (im in VT). And when hes up on breaks we are gona hang out. I wouldnt NOT want to see him. I mean we both think days drag by soo slowly when where not talking.


She may be insecure, or just not really happy in the realationship. Try talking to her about it. :)
To be honest, she sounds too immature to be in a relationship. She's only focused on HERSELF and that's a sure sign of immaturity. If you want a meaningful, mature r'ship, then it's time to end it with this roller-coaster girl. It's never a good sign, by the way, when someone can't control their emotions or is very obviously controlled by them.
bipolar much?
give her space, maybe she's feeling smothered by you
She might just be a bit busy. It happens.
She's kinda immature, or bipolar. Its o hard, iK now, but do u make her happy? cheer her up,she'll love u for it

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