Relationship advice.I dont think my previous question was very helpful. But I luv her nd dont want to lose her

I love my gf very much and I know she is the one. She had a horrible childhood, and gone through things in her 23 years that you only hear about in movies. So she gets depressed from time to time, but when we started going out She was as high as can be she said I make her feel good and happy, but recently there have been some family events that have brought her down again, and she doesnt want her being down to hurt me cuz she cant control when she is happy or not she has no happy medium which is what she is trying to achieve. She doesnt want her problems to be mine she wants to be good for me so she can be a good wife, and be good for herself so she can believe in herself. so now she says in order for this to happend she needs to be alone and not with me for now so she can find herself. she didnt ask me to wait but i will, and when she gets better n im still here she wants that, but what do i do now? she knows what she means to me. How do I handle the situation? i dont want to lose herRelationship advice.I dont think my previous question was very helpful. But I luv her nd dont want to lose her
wait it out and just be there as an ear for her. If in time she doesn't change her mind then move on and let her deal with her own issues..Relationship advice.I dont think my previous question was very helpful. But I luv her nd dont want to lose her
dont let her leave. some other guy will console her eventually. if it is real bad there are natural remedies for depression. life is hard but what doesnt kill you makes you stronger.
Just give erh some time stay in contact with her if its true love shell come back cause she knows youll be there for her no matter what happens through better or worse.
hmm....Will dont jus sit around and wait for her to let you know when shes ready for you, go stay by her side, tel her your going to be there no matter what, just hold her tight, talk to her not about her problems unless she needs to talk about it, jus be that one man with balls, big balls, let her lean on your shoulder, be there for her. Tell her that, thats what your there for, your her love your the one whose there for her, but dont beg, just teel her you wnat to be there for her, that whatever shes going threw your going to be by your side. will thats IF YOU LOVE HER.
Is she on any anti-depressants? Despite having an awful child hood, she appears to be a caring person. If she can't control her her moods, maybe counciling would help her. Have you talked to her about prof. help?
i really do feel for you.. that must be really hard. its hard to lose someone you love but the thought of one day getting them back keeps you able to carry on. do you believe that you will get back together someday? all you can do is be there for her when she needs you. I'm sure you understand how hard it must be for her though, if she as alot of problems then if it will help you been apart then you should except that and continue with your own life. try putting yourself in her position and imagin how you would feel if you was going though what she is.. it might make it more easy to accept. she knows that you love her and that's all she needs to know.. like people say ' if its meant to be it will be.' i hope things workout for you and good luck!
This is so similar to me and my now Ex. Yet we are still best freinds. Finding herself is the key statment there. All you can do is be there for support and check up on her. But if she is dating ( I doubt this given your exlpanition) You should do the same. Give it time and do the best you can to support her and be there emotionaly for her. Best of luck man.