Saturday, August 21, 2010

New relationship advice/pointers?

It seems a daft thing for me to ask but... ive just come out of a three year relationship and a guy has asked me out for ina couple of weeks.


I am terrified, me and my ex just sort of 'ended up together' i've never been part of the dating scene, any advice?New relationship advice/pointers?
Just relax and don't pretend to be anything that you're not. Remember the things that you didn't like about you're previous relationship and try to keep those things from happening again, but at the same time don't expect a guy to immediately know the things that you like.New relationship advice/pointers?
The best thing for you to do is wait for a time.You really need to be sure that you are over the hurt you may have suffered in your last relationship,if you have any residual feelings of love or even resentment for the last guy it will cloud your judgment in the next relationship you have.Make sure you are happy with you as an individual first.Since you are still scared that means you aren't ready to look for something new just yet.Take your time,when the ';right'; time comes along to date you'll know it .
What's the prob? Feeling shy and insecure?


Treat him as a friend,go out with him and tell him that you're not used to dating because you were in a relationship for a long time.


he'll appreciate your honesty and will like you for it.
hey it's not daft at all. coming out of a lonf term relatinship. it's not easy, i also had to do it. The thing is to have self-confidence but you know? no guy deserves being the rebound guy...so be friends - it is the easiest thing to do...
Show lots of skin and put out on the first date. I love girls who do that.
Give him the goo-goo eyes... that always work...
just tell you feel better starting off as friends...and go on the date as friends........tell him how you feel.....

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