I have been doing a little snooping. He started acting a little distant so I snooped around and found out he had applied to over 37 jobs about 80 miles away. I am concerned because he hasnt mentioned it to me yet.
What should I be thinking? We have a 6-month old and an older child in school. Its just bizarre.Relationship advice? Together 9 years, 2 kids, Now What?
Ask him about it, and also ask him why he didn't tell you. If you have a good relationship then you shouldn't have to second guess him here.Relationship advice? Together 9 years, 2 kids, Now What?
Yeah you should curb stomp him with a stiletto heel on and make the kids watch his brain matter spill out onto the ground. Then you should exclaim, ';Dinner time!';
Maybe he just wants a long commute. (I wouldn't bet the ranch on that one though) It honestly sounds like he wants to move. Hopefully with you. (again, don't bet the ranch)
Just ask him where he's applied for jobs. See if he opens up to you about it.
You should be thinking, why has my boyfriend been afraid to put a ring on my finger after 9 years and 2 kids?
That is what is really bizarre.
The fact that he has even applied to over 37 jobs shows he is very ambitious. If he can be this ambitious about job hunting, why can't he be equally ambitious about marrying you this far into the ';game';?
This is nothing to worry about.
He is just looking for a job, he doesn't want to tell you that he is applying for one, so that u get ur hopes up....
Just relax, when he gets the job he'll tell you and open a bit of bubbly no doubt.
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I wouldn't worry about it. Maybe he doesn't want to worry you , you guys do have two children. Once he gets a job he will tell you all about it. Its just that hes the bread winner and he doesn't want you to be scared about finances.
Keep looking and see if you can find the answer w/o letting him know you have turned into a snoop. You may make him mad if you ask. Keep looking you will find it if he has a GF.
Ask him, other wise it will cause tension. Maybe he's just looking for a better paying job to support his family.
I would really be upset, keeping things from me. I don't like that. I would confront him. If everything was on the up and up, he would of told you. I can't say what I really feel because I would get a violation for ranting. Good Luck!
It could be that he has friends or family in that area and he's thinking about moving you and the kids to that area if and when he gets a job there. He may not have mentioned it yet because he hasn't been offered a job there yet. Just play cool as difficult as that may be. Quit the snooping too. If he's your best friend and the two of you haven't kept much from each other and there really isn't anything to complain about, then count your blessings. And stop snooping. It will only damage your relationship.
he is tired of you and the kids and going to leave you as soon as he gets a job.
He is looking for a job to provide for you and the kids. No one want to work far away from home but sometime you have to. Especially if he is looking for a good paying job.
I don't think you have anything to worry about.
You should be thinking Bush really screwed this country up and Obama just isn't getting us out of it . you should be thinking of saving up what ever you can because things may get worse before they get better .
sit him down and ask him
He didn't want to tell you....but he's sleeping with me. I'm an 18 year old fit blonde, called Russell.
Face it, he doesn't like you anymore. Once you go black, you never go back...to the same size rectum.
Tell him I left the money on top of the fridge
If you are good friends why not just ask him?
Together? but not married? You have no claim on him, other than the children you've brought into the world together, which he, legally, is under no obligation to support, unless your state of residence has common law marriage %26amp; you meet all of the requirements for it.
Sorry, but that's the way it is when you play house.
Just talk him about it. He could be planning for your whole family to move.
Hopefully he's trying to get a better paying job.
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