My husband did the same thing. He hadn't talked to his ex-girlfriend for 8 YEARS. One month after our wedding, after 5 years of us dating, he talked to her online and then they met for coffee. He left me 3 days later. I found out 2 days later that I'm pregnant.
Don't mess around with the other person. It hurts you and your man. You have nothing to lose by dropping the old flame, but much to lose by dragging it around behind your man's back.I need some relationship advice.. please?
I think that you should sort your feelings out and see which of the two you like best. Having an over protective bf means that he is scared of loosing u to sum1 else.
You love the danger of getting caught. What are you doing Thursday night?
maybe Mr. wonderful isn't Mr. right. and your mind is telling your heart that by getting in touch with this other guy. I don't know how old you are, but i would make a list of quality's they each have and see how one out weighs the other.
your ';amazing wonderful'; guy is showing controlling behavior, indicative of an abusive personality. talk to whom you wish, and tell him to stick it if he objects.
Your boyfriend is an immature jerk with control issues. This sort of behaviour (trying to dictate who you can and cannot talk to) is one of the major warning signs of a potential abuser, by the way. Your ';old feelings seeming to come back'; is your gut feeling telling you to get out of your relationship with your boyfriend - and fast.
Follow ur heart,
I don't know if you will marry this young man. Why should you take him as an idol? If you donot have a filty relationship with this kid I don't know why your boyfriend should hinder you from talking to him.
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