Heyy well my ex and i just started going back out last thursday. WE have fun but when we use to go out before we use to talk every night. Now we hang ou almost every other day which is cool but sometimes when i call he doesnt call back and i know he is prob busy. Is it ok not to talk to each other for a day? I mean we pass each other in the halls. I have called him a lot so far and he hasnt answered then he calls saying he was at the gym. I want to seem independent and not annoy him like i use to when we went out before. So is it ok not to call or text him (my boyfriend) for a day??Relationship advice NEEDED!!!?
dont call or answer his calls for 24 hours, dont message back and see how long it takes before he goes insane :PRelationship advice NEEDED!!!?
Yes. Sometimes I wont talk to my BF for 3-4 days. He doesnt get mad. Calling everyday will just annoy him. Good Luck!
It is very OK to not contact your boyfriend for a day. Please don't let your feelings be controlled by this guy's actions. I'm saying he's a jerk, but it's possible to set yourself up for alot of pain by clinging too much to a relationship. Live your life: concentrate on school (from your question, I guess your in middle/high school), love your family, have fun with your friends and enjoy hobbies. If this boy is interested in you, you should never feel the need to check in with him every day. Don't stress about him. Another possibility which will bring a word of caution: even though your boyfriend likes you very much, maybe he's not as social as you would like. Your desire to contact him multiple times in one day may actually bother him. Every person communicates in a different way (Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman). Just relax and remember that you have many years ahead of you to worry about something else.
well it kinda depends on the realtionship. me and my girlfriend see each other everyday and we talk about 5 times a day after that
First of all, in my experience, if it didn't work out the first time it's not going to, ever... Second, if you have to call him all the time to see what he is doing, you obviously don't trust him and shouldn't be in a relationship. Third, maybe you should become more comfortable with yourself and who you are if you feel that you need to ';seem'; independent. Lastly, its extremely annoying and offputting to have someone call you and text you all the time.
Hey girl,you need to slow down and stop trying so hard.Don`t call
him for a few days and see how he likes being ignored.Find yourself some new friends and go party.If he really thinks anything
of you he will call you.
um ask him
No. You should only reply to his texts, not initiate. He is probably thinking you are on the needy side? You might want to get busy yourself and not make him your one and only adventure (I don't mean other men - just friends and fun). You should never reply to his texts immediately either, wait for a few hours (because you have been busy yourself - white lie that one if you have to). If you appear busy and happy with yourself, then he wont feel so responsible. The way you are going now, you are heading straight back to singledom. Give the guy some space. But make sure you fill your life up a bit too. If you do this properly, you will find it is him texting you 20 times a day trying to get your attention!!
In my opinion a good relationship is one where he calls you and you call him whenever you want and its not called buggin or annoyin its called seein what their doin or missin them. You need to fill indepent? then you need to get out of a relationship that your in by yourself bc obviously he aint participating! Good luck
yes it is ok not to talk to him for dayor so but if yoo feel likr he id avoiding you you need to talk to him about it
I would lay off the calls, i mean who wants to have thoudsands of phone calls and texts? i know i don't. no offence or anything. hope it helps! :D
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