Relationship advice greatly needed, drugs invovled.?

My recent ex-boyfriend and I were together for a good while, had an amazing relationship until he started getting into coke again. I'm against drug use in a big way, and it started causing a lot of troubles. I've always had difficulty speaking my mind when I'm upset, and even though I told him I didn't like it at all I feel I did a poor job letting him understand how much I really disapproved. Things continued to get worse in the relationship, and then we ended it. We speak through messages that are quick and lack substance. It's been about a month since we split and I dream about him constantly and miss him like I didn't know I was capable of missing someone.





Point being, someone help me understand if I want/should want to be back with him, how to get over him, how to get him back... how to fix things. I don't know. It's a bummer.Relationship advice greatly needed, drugs invovled.?
Tell him exactly what you told us and also that if he does want a relationship with you he HAS to go to rehab. If he doesn't want to you don't need him.Relationship advice greatly needed, drugs invovled.?
u need to talk to him and tell him that u miss love etc.tell him that Ur not dealing w/ all the ****.Ur in love girl wake up if he feels the same way then he would stop doing what hurts u most
it will take time for him to kick this habit if he seriously wants to. He is not worth going back to if he doesn't quit with the drugs. Sounds like he is deciding which way the relationship goes.
I don't advise marrying a coke-head. It doesn't make for a happy, calm, financially secure life.


If you can fix him, Narcotics Anonymous and other rehab facilities would love to know how you did it.


Get over him by getting a life. Volunteer. Take a class. Travel. Change jobs. And STOP talking to him. If your hands are full of crap (him) they can reach for happiness with someone else.
First you need to think about your future and what kind of life do you want.Do you want a life where you have to worry all the time or do you want a normal life that you can benefit from.Someone doing Drugs abusing Alcohol ,will do nothing to make your life a stable existence,for you or your children.Don't be a victim of someone else insecurity.
one song sums this up





I was gonna clean my room until I got high


I gonna get up and find the broom but then I got high


my room is still messed up and I know why


- cause I got high [repeat 3X]





I was gonna go to class before I got high


I coulda cheated and I coulda passed but I got high


I am taking it next semester and I know why


- cause I got high [repeat 3X]





I was gonna go to work but then I got high


I just got a new promotion but I got high


now I'm selling dope and I know why


- cause I got high [repeat 3X]





I was gonna go to court before I got high


I was gonna pay my child support but then I got high


they took my whole paycheck and I know why


- cause I got high [repeat 3X]





I wasnt gonna run from the cops but I was high


I was gonna pull right over and stop but I was high


Now I am a paraplegic - because I got high [repeat 3X]





I was gonna pay my car note until I got high


I was gonna gamble on the boat but then I got high


now the tow truck is pulling away and I know why


- because I got high [repeat 3X]





I was gonna make love to you but then I got high


I was gonna eat yo pussy too but then I got high


now I'm jacking off and I know why


- cause I got high [repeat 3X]





I messed up my entire life because I got high


I lost my kids and wife because I got high


now I'm sleeping on the sidewalk and I know why


- cause I got high [repeat 3X]





I'm gonna stop singing this song because I'm high


I'm singing this whole thing wrong because I'm high


and if I dont sell one copy I know why


- cause I'm high [repeat 3X]








you dated a stoner realise this he will never change so dont bother and you knew this going into the realationship if you loved him going in why would u want to change that...so my advise chalk it to experience and move on girl
nothing to fix...move on!! what part about ';I'm against drug use in a big way'; didn't he understand? If you're second guessing yourself, maybe you guys could do coke together...would that be better?

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