Saturday, August 21, 2010

(non)relationship advice plz? =/?

i love this guy (i'm his ex. im the one that broke it off) but he has a gf who treats him horrendously and he loves me but i feel guilty cuz i feel like im making him cheat even though we just talk, we dont ever see each other anymore. all advice is appreciated :)(non)relationship advice plz? =/?
does she has him tied with chains , don feel bad first he is not cheating ,second He doesn't love you ,because he still with her.probably he just want to have fun with you, and how do you know that his gf treats him horrendously if you don't see it? He is making a fool of you , and you are letting him(non)relationship advice plz? =/?
If you're not doing anything or trying to make him do anything then it's not cheating. It may not be fair to his current girlfriend for him to be talking to you like this but you haven't done anything wrong. That being said, you have to ask yourself what you want from the relationship with him, just someone to talk to, a friend, or to get back together. If you do want to get back together than this isn't the way to go about it. Let him work things out with his current girlfriend. If you only want to be friends there's nothing wrong with that but he should probably tell his gf he's talking to you
I'm not really sure what the question is....but here's the advice that I'm willing to give. If you feel guilty about something that you're doing, perhaps you shouldn't be doing it? I don't think it's right for people to be the go-between in relationships, but it doesn't sound like you're really making him cheat...as long as nothing sexual or anything like that happens, you're good to go. Just be his friend. :]
SIMPLE IS BEAUTIFUL:


You are making him cheat on his GF just by talking to him.


your his EX.


why you still love him ?


why your the one who broke it off ?


So what if she treats him horrendously that's their business not yours unless you want him back.


If you don't want her coming over %26amp; beating your @ss I say stay away, don't talk to him, don't see him. Like you said you BROKE IT OFF. THERE HAD TO BE A REASON YOU DID.
if you still want to go out with him, talk about his girlfriend with him. see if he feels like hes not being treated the way he wants to be. if you don't then ask him how she would feel if she knew you were talking. relax you havent done anything wrong...yet. If your not sure about what to do still just ask him how he feels about it. :) hope this helps
Are u sure he loves you? make sure of that first.


if he does, talk to him sincerely, although his gf is an obstacle in that case...dnt have advice about dealing with her but if you talk to the guy he might come up with a solution if he Truly loves u
Tell him how you feel. He deserves to be treated better than he is being treated.
Why won't he just go out with you?
I liked it
well u love him he loves u...whats the prob:P
why'd u breakk it off? :/

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