I need relationship advice.?

So there is this girl whom i like very much...she has kissed me many times but we arent going out yet...when ever i ask if she wants to chill she wants to hang with her bestfriend who was her ex boyfriend at one point...it has been driving me nuts all the time...she gets jealous when ever i hang with my bestfriend whom ive known since 5th grade ( she is a girl but we are strictly friends) what should i do?I need relationship advice.?
She had double standards and if you two haven't moved forward by now there is a reason.





The reason is she very obviously is not over her ex boyfriend who now if her ';best friend.'; Which by the way is total BS. He's not just her friend, she just can't let go of him and loves his attention so she acts as if he is her best friend so no one can judge her.





Hate to break it to you but this girl isn't mature enough to hold a real relationship with you and you've been wasting your time on her. I hope you realize this and move on because even if she DID agree to date you you'll most likely continuously have problems with her having her ex and her best friend. She'll always value him above you.I need relationship advice.?
Its sounds like she wants control over the whole thing! What I would not is tell her that she needs to stop playing games with you if she wants to be with you then she needs to stop playing! And let her know that she goes and hangs with her best friend which is her x then you have the right to hang with ur friend! Let her know how u feel be honest trust me thats the only way and if she dont like it then she aint worth it! there are girls that wants a relationship and not wanting to play with peoples feelings!!! GOOD LUCK!!!
Shes using you as rebound right now probably.


Ignore her for a week bu dont make it so obvious - it'll give her time to think about what she really wants, you or her ex boyfriend who she spends more time with.


When she might feel like she's losing you she'll either ask you about it and spend more time with you or she wont care.


Dont ignore her too much, just start backing away slightly for about a week or two
Communication is key:


U like this girl a lot. Is she your GF?? If not then sounds like she is playing the field. You need to tell her how you feel and ask her how she feelz about you. If it is established that you are both into eachother then let her know that it bothers you that she spends so much time with her EX BF. If she is not willing to compromise on that subject then I would say move on.


There are so many gurls out there... then settle for the wrong one.


and listen to ur gutt feelings....


they are usually right.
I really think you need to confront her. Tell her that you want to know how she really feels because it seems like she is kind of playing you. Tell her that you accept the fact you have a guy as your best friend and that she needs to accept the fact that you have a girl who is your best friend. And if she can hang out with him you have every right to hang out with her. good luck!
it sounds like she might not be sure whether or not she wants you, but she definately doesnt want anyone else to have you. talk to her without showing her how much you like her (dont appear too available) and if she's like i dont know blah blah blah then go hook up with someone else and see if that changes her mind
Tell her. Honesty is best. I cant say it never hurts to be honest but you will never know what she wants if you dont talk to her about it. Just sit down with her and have a serious conversation about it.
she doesnt hav feelings for you. sorry. find some other girl that treat you like you treat her. that is the best advice you can get i think. laterz
she can hang out with his ex-bf and u can hang out with ur friend too(prefers girl) don't care bout her jealousy coz she made u jealous and why would she be mad if u made her jealous? my advice is ';hang out with other girl';
find someone who's not like her.
date a girl who doesn't have double standards