Unbalanced relationship......advice???

My fiance (with whom I have been with for almost 3 years) has been unemployed now for over 2 years. By way of Karma (or just pure luck) we sold 2 acres of inherited land of hers and now have purchased a home on 2 acres. We have lived together in our home for over a year now. For the entire duration of our ';co-habitation'; she has not contributed anything. I praise her for the sake of it being because of her we have our home, but in my opinion that does not justify her apathy towards responsibility and making this a 50/50 relationship. The entire finanicial burden is on my shoulders. Every bill,every month..... What can I do to truly make her see she is hurting me deeply by not helping share the load so that positive change may come from it? I love her and want to be with her but by doing what she is doing she is hurting me beyond words. Also, she will look for a job only by faxing/emailing her resume and only rarely will she physically go somewhere and apply. H-E-L-P!!!!!!!!!Unbalanced relationship......advice???
The one thing you failed to mention was if the land and house purchases went in both your names.????????


If it did then I would say you've made out like a champ, and she deserves you to pay her back your half of her inherited land money which was hers


through no effort of yours. If not then your living in her house


and bill payment would replace rent payment to a landlord...


This major ommission changes any fair responce.


All this should be discuss before you go any further in a relationship that may someday consist of childern the care


giver role..Unbalanced relationship......advice???
I think that you should take money from the land that was sold, then figure up what the montly bills are that you are wanting her to contribute to and she should not have to pay any bills until you have contributed as much as she has.





Example: Land was sold for 50,000


Monthly bills 4000


Her half 2000





So that would mean that she would not contribute anything for 25 months. Then it would be equal.





She has already done way more then her fare share!

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