Relationship advice please! mature people only thanks?

Ok, so me %26amp; my boyfriend have been together for the better part of almost 2 years now. Things have been going downhill for the past 2 months. I am VERY much in love with him %26amp; i know that he is the only one i want. But the problem is, i don't feel like he loves me at all. He says he does, but he really never shows it. He's stood me up 4 times in the past month. He rarely answers his phone or calls me back. Im always the one calling %26amp; asking to see him. I understand he's a busy guy. Its senior year, hes got basketball stuff all the time, he's getting ready for college and evrything. But i feel that, if a guy truely loves you, he will make time for you.


He knows how i feel %26amp; i have told him how he can make things better, but he chooses not to do anything about it. I am so depressed these days over him i'm a whole different person. I cant keep putting up with his BS but i dont think i can leave him either. what should i do?Relationship advice please! mature people only thanks?
your right about the make time thing , look , maybe he doesnt feel the same way about u as he once did and he dont want to break up with u cuase of all the memories or that he don want to hurt you , this relationship sounds like its in its very end , so be ready for a break up , and hey , i understand that u love him and all , but u need someone whocan really appreciate you and yes you will find someone else and he isnt the last guy in the world , be strong and try as much as u can to get yourself not to be so emotional about it so that it doesnt hurt and i wish it ends up ina good wayRelationship advice please! mature people only thanks?
It is a tough situation. My ordinary advise would be that you leave him because clearly he doesn't seem to care much about you. You can continue putting up with this for a while because you say that you can't leave him, but eventually you'll be tired of it all and then you'll be faced with a situation where you'll be forced to leave, not by your choice.
tell him u wanna break up with him, and see how would he react. if he says yes, obviously, u guyz r over...if he doesnt want to break up with u, he would do something impressively to win u back...
It is time to move on from this relationship. You are young and you have the rest of your life to worry about relationships.
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On one hand, you're right, he should make time for you, if he's able to. Some people, because of school schedule and home work, are so over loaded with school stuff, that they can't have a life outside of school, can't even email. And throw in a possible getting grounded, all communication is cut off for a time. I think he does care for you, but has issues right now, or maybe he's upset with you, about smothing. On the other hand, some people don't like to show affection to their gf or bf, in public. And some, even if they want to show it, don't know how to, or at least don't think they do. So bare and bear with him, talk to him about it,even. At least give him a couple of years, before you dump him, if you care so much about him, as you insinuate.
no1 can say if he love's u or no cuz he might dose but like u said he don't show it and when he don't show love it dosn't mean he don't love U he might b bad on showing he love not god at that there is poeple that can't really show it , and wat u should do is talk 2him tell him U feel he don't love u and when u try 2leave him he start beging u and stop u and show love for 2 or 3days and then he back 2push U away , just let this out and U might be lucky and hear him telling u wat the real story is u really might find out if he love u 4real or no .
TELL HIM YOU ARE NOT HAPPY AND THAT THINGS MUST CHANGE FOR YOU TO STAY. GIVE HIM A CHANCE TO CHANGE A LITTLE. IF HE DOESN'T, GO ANOTHER DIRECTION.
Its easy, he is cheating on you. Follow him around one day you'll see. Everything you described is the classic signs of cheating. Sorry to break it to you but thats whats going on.
I think you answered your own fears. He should have a little more time for you. It doesn't seem to me he loves you . Tell him to change otherwise you leave him.Or leave with that.
Buy the book ';Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus'; and see if the author's advice helps you.
Find someone who will respect and treat you as you feel you should be treated.
An exceptional man who understands ATTRACTION is FAR more rare, valuable, and desirable than even the most BEAUTIFUL woman.





You're attracted to him. Bottom line. If you're attracted to a man, nothing else matters. Attraction is not logical. The good news is, that you got a man that understands attraction. You don't know how many women, would love to feel this gut-feeling for a guy. The girls that tell you to dump him, envy you. You got a real man in your hands.





I know. I know. You're probably saying he's so Unpredictable.


That's right. He hasn't turned into a *****, because he wants to keep you feeling for him like you do(Sexual Tension). The minute he turns into a wussy, becomes predictable, does everything you tell him, takes your ****, courts you everywhere, you'll lose the feeling you have now, and then you'll be the one asking for space. Let him be a man.





I've been married 14 years, and I still keep the line tight. I am the man, she knows that, and she let's me be the man. She doesn't try to control me. She actually enjoys the challenge. Until today, she has never been able to figure me out. That's why she has not gotten bored with me ever, like most women do after a few years of marriage. People never believe we're married because we don't act like married people(boring), we act like if we were dating. No joke.
my answer is very short ,but i hope it helps you


a person who puts him self out for things, are the most important to him


you should be his no 1 priority


in other words some whom he puts his self out for


your not so finish with him


thiis some times turns thing around


if it doesnt then move on
Hang out with one of his basketball buddies right in front of him for a few days then see what happens. If he's not in the realationship, then there is only you and that's not a relationship.
You're not going to want to read this, but people rarely like hearing the truth. I'm going to start off with the following quote:





';People treat you how you train them to treat you.....';.





I'm glad you are in love with your b/f but remember, love is a 2-way street. Another thing to realize is that love at your age is much differnent than mature love at an older age, when you've had more life experience under your belt. I know what I like at age 30, let's say, compared to age 20 is like night and day.





The fact is your b/f is treating you this way because you are allowing it. There are no consequences to his actions. Now, I don't have his side of the story so I'm not sure if he is super busy with school and extracirricular activites and you might be making unreasonable demands of his time...I have NO idea because I'm only getting one side of the story.





I don't even have a g/f right now but am dating 2 women. They are not even my gf's but I still call them back when they call me. And I never stand them up. You can use that as your benchmark on how your bf is treating you.





Sometimes the toughest choices in life are the ones you do not want to make. It sounds like to me that ur bf is taking you for granted and that it's time to realize that this relationship is ridiculously one - sided. Not only is that NOT healthy, but it also says a lot about you because you are willing to put up with you. I know you wrote that you cannot part with him, but really, nothing is going to change until you leave.





It's time to pack your bags, tell your b/f that you've had it with the disrespectful way he treats you and that you're done with the relationships. It sounds drastic, but he's already made his choice. You tried to give him a chance to fix things and he refused.





Trust me when I say this......he is not the only one out there for you.





It's time to do the mature and HEALTHY thing and drop this bum for what he really is....a guy who really doesn't feel the same way about you.





It's going to hurt, but time will heal.





Rod